We rise! — only eating at The Grey is better!

Black, White, and the Grey is one of those books that you cannot forget. It is on its surface the story of the creation of a top-notch restaurant in Savannah, Georgia. But it is also a slice of life in 20th Century America depicting the frisson between races. The individuals depicted in the book are both human and humane, as they develop individually and as they grow as a team to create one of the greatest restaurants in the American South.
Having met both John-O and Mashama, and having spoken with them in their restaurant over the course of the past winter season, I can attest to the genuiness of the personalities as depicted in the book. There are elements of both joy and tragedy, as well as suffering and accomplishment in this book. Having been at The Grey during the pandemic, I witnessed how the leadership and staff of The Grey rose above the trials of the pandemic to rise to even great heights of culinary success as a result of their collective hard work.
Bottom line: read the book, listen to their voices (including their profile in the third season of Netflix’s Chef’s Table), and, above all, eat in their very unique restaurant.
All in all, a triumph of the human spirit.

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Underwhelming

A story of how millionaire experiencing middle age crisis and self absorbed but talented chef opened restaurant. This book is weird and probably was written with idea to be adopted for the movie. Thus weird storytelling: starting with accident, main story and returning to accident.

Both authors seem to be out of touch with reality. My "favorite" part was their problem with kitchen porters and inability to find people who would work at this position more or less on permanent basis.They tried everything: be nice to them, be friendly, not be friendly, don't pay attention, pay attention and so on. Everything except paying more, of course. It's important to notice that the requirements for this job in the Grey were more serious than in other restaurants while salary is same (minimal wage). No phones, no smoking brakes, no talking! Then one day after all of the porters except one quit John had to wash dishes. After that incident they decided to change "culture", be respectful to porters, added some more corpo marketing mambo jumbo and 30% increase in salary from 11 USD per hour to 15 USD and voila suddenly people stopped not coming to their jobs or leaving in the middle of working day, I don't know why it took whole chapter for a great self made businessman John or super people oriented chef Mashama to understand that if you pay same minimum wage as everywhere else but add some weird requirements people might not work in a place with additional weird requirements.

1 star for recipes plus 0.5 star to each of the authors because writing is difficult and it seems a lot of work was put in this book.

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Absolute must read

A true delve into the hardships one faces in developing a restaurant as well as in everyday life. A view into the heart and it’s yearnings and overlapping confusion that plagues us all as humans but doesn’t have to plague us as long as we have the emotional intelligence to recognize what it is. Beautiful book and I am so happy that Mashama came in to help it really become the writing that it needed to be whole. Without her, sorry John o, it would not have been the great work that it is. But it did take the amazing group/family effort to make it beautiful!

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View from a Savannah Neighbor and Customer

I, too, live in Historic Downtown Savannah. I don’t frequent The Grey, but it’s at the top of my list for special occasions. It’s arguably the best place in town.

This book is thoughtfully written and brings to light the true challenges of race relations in this country. I live in a beautiful, spacious home within walking distance of fine restaurants, museums and theaters. Blocks away there is another world.

I participated in the Big Brothers/Big Sisters program and I had my heart broken when a family member of my “Little,” was shot and killed, at age 16, over a bicycle.

This memoir makes it real and it is worthwhile for substantive healing and growth in a society with wide chasms.

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Pretty underwhelming

I’m sad I used a credit on this. I am a restaurant industry geek and love stories about humble beginnings, chefs, etc. this is not that. It’s super underwhelming, boring, and the narration is really corny. I feel like Johno dominated the story and had nothing substantive to say. In general it’s just not captivating. I’m glad they have a successful restaurant and Mashama sounds like a great chef. I want her story more than his.

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Family

I loved the shared narrative of this book. John O’s narrative concise and informative then a curtain pulled back, often, and another perspective of the same narrative given by Mashama. Priceless. I particularly enjoyed the details John O gave about forging a restaurant business with no experience (having never heard of a dish pit?!!) thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Mashama’s comments about those early days of planning the business were rich (to me). The story of Scotts accident permeated my soul and will remain there. Though I don’t drink bourbon, I grabbed my journal to copy the recipe for the Paper Plane and one of these days I will make it and raise my glass to Scott. I hope to visit The Grey some day. This book will stick with me for a while. I wish I had the community you have built amidst the ruins of America in my life. I guess I need to get to work on that. Thank you!

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Practical experiential knowledge of “how to become an Anti-Racist”!!

Loved that this was read by the authors!!! And appreciated that the journey to equality is TRULY A LONG HARD ROAD for US ALL!!!
THANK YOU!!!

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Different and I loved it!

The authenticity of both Mashama and John O was refreshing. What a great example of what America can be. If I'm ever in Savannah, I will be dining at the Grey.

Good Audio Book

Sometimes when a reader is too slow, I’ll adjust the playback speed. That didn’t work here, with the back and forth between readers, there was no good way to get the tempo right. For anyone annoyed by slow reading, go for a real book.

Rich beginnings/short comings

I enjoyed this book because it was a true account of two people and their business, thought processes that’s needed to make a business enriched ( trust, equality from both partners, knowing when to give the other partner space, openness regarding each other’s background /cultures, taking risks. IDE rifting your own strengths/weaknesses. Finally adding friendships /including families.