• Divorcing a Narcissist

  • Deciding Whether to Stay or Go and Healing from an Emotional Destructive. How to Ending a Toxic Relationship. Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse from Ex-partner.
  • By: Covert Harper J.
  • Narrated by: Christopher Shelby Slone
  • Length: 3 hrs and 57 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (281 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Do you want to divorce a narcissist? If yes, then keep listening.…

Romantic relationships with narcissists typically start out like a fairy tale. There is the moment where you meet the narcissist, and you feel instantly attracted to him or her. You cannot quite place it but something about the narcissist feels too good to be true. There is a reason for this — she is projecting what she is learning is your ideal partner. She learns from the feedback you give when interacting and tweaks her behaviors until you feel like you are looking at an idealized version of everything you want. 

As you grow more interested in her over time, falling for her pretense of perfection, she will begin the devaluation stage of your relationship, at which point she will essentially crush your self-esteem and leave you scrambling to get back to her good graces. She wants to make sure you are hooked on her, and this is the perfect way to test it. 

Eventually, as this cycle of love bombing and devaluation continue, growing shorter and shorter with each revolution, she will begin to lose her interest in you. She may decide that you no longer have whatever it was that caught her eye, or she may simply be bored at the lack of the challenge, feeling all of the whirlwind romance hormones fading away, and decide that it is no longer worth her while to pursue the relationship. She may decide to keep you around while seeking alternate sources of narcissistic supply, such as from an affair partner, or she may decide to end things with you altogether, though she will keep you just interested enough in her, with small hints of you being interested in her scattered here and there to convince you that she may still come back for you. 

Ultimately, what she wants is options for her supply and to perpetually live in the joy of the honeymoon stage of a relationship, though every relationship moves past that if given the chance to properly mature. She mistakes the purpose of relationships as being the honeymoon stage instead of seeing that as just one step in the process to a long-lasting relationship. Ultimately, she wants to do what is best for her, which is typically whatever feels best. She is not interested in a long-term relationship so much as in having fun and being the center of attention.

This book gives a comprehensive guide on the following:

  • The seven steps to follow to take your revenge
  • Divorcing a narcissist
  • Partner with just narcissism tendencies
  • Recovering from narcissistic abuse
  • Redefining yourself after the abuse
  • Ending a relationship
  • Psychological manipulation techniques
  • Tips for prevention, FAQs, and helping someone in a narcissistic relationship
  • How to break off a relationship with a narcissist
  • Executing the no contact rule effectively
  • Grieving after narcissistic abuse
  • Extreme narcissism
  • And more!

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©2020 Covert Harper J. (P)2020 Covert Harper J.

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Best book ever of you are a parent battling

The BEST book that I have ever listen to the damage that a severe narcissist does within a partnership or marriage, and forevermore. The damage is vested not only on the spouse but also the children. The narcissist sees all through special filters.ALL is about themselves and their wants and needs!


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Very enjoyable audiobook.

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I'm satisfied to listen to this book.

This is by far the best book I have listened to concerning the topic of narcissism. The author has expressively planned a manual which is comprised of the composition of a narcissist.

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This audiobook is well listened and organized while being penetrating and practical. I found the exercises to be very constructive. I would recommend this audiobook for anyone wants to fine-tune their skills at listening to people.

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Life changing book. This is amazing to listen for anyone who has lived through the experience and narcissistic abuse. Lots of helpful information in here about escaping a narcissist. Recommended.


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I had enjoyed this book Immensely

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This audiobook definitely opened my eyes

This audiobook definitely opened my eyes up and educated me in regards to how to protect my energy. I absolutely loved listening to this audiobook and have shared the audiobook with friends.

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This audible has been super helpful for me

This audio book has helped me so much in coming to terms, understanding and recovering from narcissistic abuse.

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An interesting and informative audible of what you can do to raise your mood naturally, without the use of drugs. It contained a lot of information that I already knew but increased my understanding of these things and informed me on much more besides!

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  • 09-12-21

excellent

what a great book. its been such an inspirational way of thinking. going through a time that I could use this info and this definitely helped me.

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  • Denise Iorio
  • 04-19-20

Narcissism is the scourge of this era

Best audiobook on narcissism I have to listen leads you down a path of healing and making sure you have tools to deal with or cut out the narcissistic person. It explains it in simple terms and one of the stories was relatable. I highly recommend the book.

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  • Ronald Thompson
  • 04-19-20

A wonder guide to be codependent no more

This audio book should be required listening for teens or young adults before they begin any serious relationship. it gave me so much POWER and is helping me be codependent no more and now undo all the evil that has been done.

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  • Nettie Pierce
  • 04-17-20

Such An Important Audio Book!

This audio book is very informative about narcissism. It goes into details about the Characteristics of narcissism, and how to handle people of different levels of those Characteristics.

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  • Virginia Mason
  • 04-16-20

Arming the victim of narcissism

Very informative. This was a good listen it really helped me to change my response in my situation. It still was very difficult to be around somebody with this character. Recommended highly to listen. Gave me some survival skills to endure certain family members. Thanks.

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  • Zachary Pond
  • 04-16-20

This is very effective audio book.

This audio book finally explained what I have been through.And then I started listening about narcissistic abuse and my eyes were opened. This is literally life changing.

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  • Dixie Barker
  • 04-14-20

Excellent

Anyone divorcing a narcissist must listen to this book. Clearly outlines what you need to do to protect yourself from someone who is spiteful and only thinks of himself. Excellent advice from someone who has been there!

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  • Darryl Scott
  • 04-14-20

Must listen!

Excellent, sanity saving and restoring advice. I am the spouse of a wonderful man with an NPD ex-wife. This info has been invaluable in helping me to understand that we will never, well, understand her illogical, harmful thought process. This book also gave us coping mechanisms to move forward from that realization. HIGHLY recommend. Very easy to read and highly relatable no matter your position in the narc relationship. Thank you, Harper!

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  • Santiago Gardner
  • 04-14-20

Mostly for Moms

The best thing about this book? It confirmed that for me and my children, staying with the N was my best strategy and safest for my children. I have 2 special needs children who would have shriveled under the legal onslaught. The N had really lost interest in parenting "defectives" and was only a visitor to the family. This gave me the opportunity to provide the best care that I could with minimal sabotaging from N. The children are grown and functioning well as adults. If I had tried to divorce him, all hell would have broken out and it would have been my children who sustained the most damage.

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  • Thomas Smith
  • 04-10-20

This audio book is a lifesaver.

It gave me explanations of and names for the techniques of the psychological warfare that my abuser was waging against me. Now when he tries these things on me, I say to myself, "ok this is projection or that is triangulation".