• Divorcing a Narcissist

  • Deciding Whether to Stay or Go and Healing from an Emotional Destructive. How to Ending a Toxic Relationship. Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse from Ex-partner.
  • By: Covert Harper J.
  • Narrated by: Christopher Shelby Slone
  • Length: 3 hrs and 57 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (104 ratings)

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Divorcing a Narcissist

By: Covert Harper J.
Narrated by: Christopher Shelby Slone
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Do you want to divorce a narcissist? If yes, then keep listening.…

Romantic relationships with narcissists typically start out like a fairy tale. There is the moment where you meet the narcissist, and you feel instantly attracted to him or her. You cannot quite place it but something about the narcissist feels too good to be true. There is a reason for this — she is projecting what she is learning is your ideal partner. She learns from the feedback you give when interacting and tweaks her behaviors until you feel like you are looking at an idealized version of everything you want. 

As you grow more interested in her over time, falling for her pretense of perfection, she will begin the devaluation stage of your relationship, at which point she will essentially crush your self-esteem and leave you scrambling to get back to her good graces. She wants to make sure you are hooked on her, and this is the perfect way to test it. 

Eventually, as this cycle of love bombing and devaluation continue, growing shorter and shorter with each revolution, she will begin to lose her interest in you. She may decide that you no longer have whatever it was that caught her eye, or she may simply be bored at the lack of the challenge, feeling all of the whirlwind romance hormones fading away, and decide that it is no longer worth her while to pursue the relationship. She may decide to keep you around while seeking alternate sources of narcissistic supply, such as from an affair partner, or she may decide to end things with you altogether, though she will keep you just interested enough in her, with small hints of you being interested in her scattered here and there to convince you that she may still come back for you. 

Ultimately, what she wants is options for her supply and to perpetually live in the joy of the honeymoon stage of a relationship, though every relationship moves past that if given the chance to properly mature. She mistakes the purpose of relationships as being the honeymoon stage instead of seeing that as just one step in the process to a long-lasting relationship. Ultimately, she wants to do what is best for her, which is typically whatever feels best. She is not interested in a long-term relationship so much as in having fun and being the center of attention.

This book gives a comprehensive guide on the following:

  • The seven steps to follow to take your revenge
  • Divorcing a narcissist
  • Partner with just narcissism tendencies
  • Recovering from narcissistic abuse
  • Redefining yourself after the abuse
  • Ending a relationship
  • Psychological manipulation techniques
  • Tips for prevention, FAQs, and helping someone in a narcissistic relationship
  • How to break off a relationship with a narcissist
  • Executing the no contact rule effectively
  • Grieving after narcissistic abuse
  • Extreme narcissism
  • And more!

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©2020 Covert Harper J. (P)2020 Covert Harper J.

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Best book ever of you are a parent battling

The BEST book that I have ever listen to the damage that a severe narcissist does within a partnership or marriage, and forevermore. The damage is vested not only on the spouse but also the children. The narcissist sees all through special filters.ALL is about themselves and their wants and needs!


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Same exact words

Same words as another book on this topic this should be noted before buying this or the other book

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Very enjoyable audiobook.

I leaned so many effective things from this book. I was actually amazed by seeing how many important suggestions gathered in such a short book.

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I'm satisfied to listen to this book.

This is by far the best book I have listened to concerning the topic of narcissism. The author has expressively planned a manual which is comprised of the composition of a narcissist.

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This audible has many things in this information.

This audiobook is well listened and organized while being penetrating and practical. I found the exercises to be very constructive. I would recommend this audiobook for anyone wants to fine-tune their skills at listening to people.

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Valuable information gathered

Life changing book. This is amazing to listen for anyone who has lived through the experience and narcissistic abuse. Lots of helpful information in here about escaping a narcissist. Recommended.


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I had enjoyed this book Immensely

The creator is a sorted out individual, who puts his thoughts forward plainly and articulately. I discovered his book recording simpler to actualize and his frameworks simple to embrace.

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This audiobook definitely opened my eyes

This audiobook definitely opened my eyes up and educated me in regards to how to protect my energy. I absolutely loved listening to this audiobook and have shared the audiobook with friends.

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This audible has been super helpful for me

This audio book has helped me so much in coming to terms, understanding and recovering from narcissistic abuse.

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There is a great deal with this audible

An interesting and informative audible of what you can do to raise your mood naturally, without the use of drugs. It contained a lot of information that I already knew but increased my understanding of these things and informed me on much more besides!

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  • 09-12-21

excellent

what a great book. its been such an inspirational way of thinking. going through a time that I could use this info and this definitely helped me.

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  • 03-30-20

It is the book that people should listen

It is a book about people, men, and women that have narcissistic personality disorder..and the pain and abuse that they leave in their wake after a relationship ends.

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  • Samuel
  • 03-30-20

the book it was insightful

As far as the book it was insightful but disliked it was only geared toward women- only using pronouns from a women's point of view. I know the author is female but there are women narcissists out there as well

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  • Jackson
  • 03-30-20

Perfect for dealing with the covert abuser

I am glad to have found author books. They have helped me navigate my battle and I would highly recommend this book. She offers up advice and uses her personal stories so you do not feel alone in your journey.

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  • Aiden
  • 03-30-20

Thinking about this review

I've spent some time thinking about this review and how best to say it, because there is so much I could say about it that I don't have enough space here or time! I hope there is a precious woman out there that will read this review and purchase this book because she's dying emotionally.

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  • Michael
  • 03-30-20

This book has allowed me to finally let go

This book has allowed me to finally let go of stuff I was holding onto. Making myself feel responsible for things that were not my burden to carry! It feels good to be able to see that others have struggled with people just like my ex-husband. My only wish is, I had this book before divorcing him.