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Don't Believe the Swipe
- Finding Love Without Losing Yourself
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- Length: 6 hrs and 17 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Online dating. Dating apps. Texting. Social media. Endless swiping in search of forever love. It seems like the more ways technology offers to "connect" us, the less connected we actually are. Modern dating is not for the faint of heart!
Don't Believe the Swipe is not your mother's dating guide. It isn't about "landing a man" or learning to "think like a man" or "getting any man to fall in love with you"; it's about falling in love with yourself and then extending that love to every aspect of your life - including your love life. It's about learning to date without surrendering your power. It's about choosing yourself, regardless of whether someone swipes right or swipes left.
Funny, fresh, and relevant to today's crazy dating world, this book is sure to become your go-to modern dating guide. New York Times best-selling author Mandy Hale draws on her own hilarious and often jaw-dropping experiences to illustrate what it means to stop believing the swipe and start finding love without losing yourself.
There is a way to date with dignity, to refuse to let the swipe rule your life, to stand confident in your worth, and to not settle for less than you deserve. This book is that way.
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- KI
- 03-15-22
Great for people who have LOTS of dates
This is the first book I have read/ listened to from Mandy Hale and it's a garden variety, predictable book about being a single woman. I was disappointed because I thought it would have a bit more substance as it was written by a woman in her 40s ( that's why I purchased it, because I'm in my 40s). Parts of it came off as 'humble-bragging' about this or that guy and amicable splits without the hassles of overcoming a broken heart.
If you are someone who feels overlooked in the dating scene or invisible to the opposite sex, this isn't the book for you.
I stopped midway because I couldn't deal with the cliches and condescending tone of some of the tips at the end of each chapter.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-24-22
Great book!
Great book very upbuilding and encouraging!
I’ve heard it a few times to help remind me not to get caught up in the dance with emotionally unavailable men and focus on myself instead.
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- Amy B Shaw
- 01-21-22
Loved it
I wish I read this sooner. this was an amazing guy to online dating and a great help to empower yourself and boost your confidence. every woman should read this who is dating online.
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- Angela Dieckman
- 10-02-21
Sometimes glib mixed with some truth
3/5: It is unfortunate that the overall tone of this book felt glib because there really is some truth in what Hale shares. I am not a fan of the "self help" genre in general, but having entered the wilderness of dating a year ago, I thought I might learn something or at least commiserate in my experience. I did both, so in that way this book was worth the read. I think the way Hale mixed in lingo made the topic feel too breezy and inconsequential when in reality it is of great consequence. Yes, the lingo is real and helpful to know but it felt almost gimmicky and took away from her sincere experience and wisdom.
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- Elizabeth Posey
- 09-14-21
NEEDED THIS.
This book was presented to me at the perfect time. 10/10 recommend!! Go get this, even if you are in a relationship, single or just like me, coming out of and healing from a horrible breakup! I'm serious. If you THINK you might want to read it, that means you should!
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- Alexis
- 07-31-21
Amazing
Best book I’ve consumed in a long time! It has changed my life! 10/10 I recommend.
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- Turkesshia Moore
- 07-19-21
The book I thought I didn't need!
Dating is exhausting but thank you for the courage to not let the swipe rule my life.
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- BAG
- 06-12-21
Loved it
I absolutely loved this book! I wish it had been out last year when I decided to start dating! Thank you, Mandy, for this handy-dandy book because it has already come in handy! ❤️📖
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- Diana Lacy
- 06-09-21
A good way to “look at yourself in the mirror “
I feel like she’s written this about my life, but I’m 10 years older. I’m not quite in the place to “embrace the singleness “ just yet, but I know at my age I have to STOP not living my life, and waiting on HIM. My life is half over, I can’t wait on him any longer.
I have to agree with another reviewer and say the way the person pronounces “remember” is a bit annoying. But certainly not enough not to listen. She’s very expressive in her reading. Very enjoyable!
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- Pugmommy03
- 06-05-21
A Must Read For Single Ladies
I absolutely loved this book. Being single and dating can be emotionally draining and exhausting. Mandy really helped me understand why things happened and what they meant . This book is very empowering and informative.
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- Anonymous User
- 03-24-22
Lists and TV references
Endless lists and tv/movie references get in the way of the topic. Plan to return, waste of a credit.
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- Deborah Harvey-Smith
- 10-19-21
A must for singles!
I enjoyed this exploration of the world of dating at this time where technology and social media tend to dominate our interactions with others. Definitely worth a listen!
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- Kerry.
- 06-30-21
Empowering.
Enjoyed listening to this audio book.
Very empowering and easy listening.
Basically reminded me what I know...but was/is the slap in the face I needed to get me back on a positive track. Thank you x
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-16-21
Loved it! A must read for those in the dating game
As someone who has been on and off dating apps for the last two years I can totally relate to so much in this book and Mandy makes so much sense. I am walking away with a better mindset and realising my self worth. I highly recommend every single female (and those in unhappy relationships) to read this!!