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A Gallup study found that 50 percent of resigning employees did so "to get away from their manager". The ones who don't quit become disengaged, creating a negative work environment costing US companies billions in lost productivity, each year.

Leaders in the 21st century need to understand that technical skills are not enough to be an effective manager. They need to able to demonstrate tactical empathy to create a more productive environment. This audiobook introduces listeners to the fundamentals of hostage negotiator leadership (HNL) which has, as its foundation, tactical empathy.

Inside this book, you'll learn 12 simple-to-execute skills that, if applied immediately, will have you operating at a level higher than most. Ego, Authority, Failure was authored for leaders who want actionable techniques to build trust-based influence in order to motivate and inspire. It is also shares cautionary tales for those in denial about the damage their ego and authority has on their organization.

©2019 Derek Gaunt (P)2020 Derek Gaunt

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would be great if there was less swearing in it

the book is an excellent companion to 'never split the difference'. it could stand alone too. just wish I could reccomend it. the fact that the author could not find a creative way to express the over abundance of explicit words is sad. the insertion of swear words, even though they happen in real life, is really not necessary it does not add to the dialogue or teaching and in fact detracts.

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Setting A Path

I read this book because it was recommended by Chris Voss-Never split the difference. I’m glad that I read it because it helped to put in play some of the concepts that were put down in Chris’s book. As well as expand in the areas that needed to be delved into further.

They were also numerous areas of concepts that I am looking forward to putting in place.

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It's a good companion book.

I'm very familiar with the black swan group and Chris Voss. If you've read "never split the difference", this is a good follow up book. Taking the Chris Voss Masterclass and going through this will help cement the ideas of The Black Swan Group's method of negotiation. It's good, a bit repetitive, but good.

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excellent book. hard to listen

Derek is a genius, he explains not only what but also how. The book is very good and complimatery to 'never split the difference' by chris voss.

When Derek narrates the book, it was very hard for me to listen and concentra because his voice is very monotonous, and the wording brakes are just wrong.

overall? highly recommend!

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Great for ppl wanting to improve communication!

This book was a fantastic tool for leaders looking to improve their communication skills. Even those who think they're already effective leaders and communicators will get something out of this book.

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loved the ethos for a leader found in the end!

The structure provided for appropriate application of tactical empathy in leadership roles. Is something I have been searching for ever since Never split the Difference entered my consciousness. Thanks to this book I have finally found it.

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ugh

This book is the same thing as never split the difference by chris voss basically.

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A Natural Storyteller!

Terrific writing style, always enjoy stories associated to lessons and especially the end chapter recaps. The sign off at the end…was perfect! Always learning.

Keep it up.

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Great Message for Leaders

Good message for all leaders. Discusses an approach to leadership based on hostage negotiation which was a newer viewpoint that I hadn’t heard before. The book starts a bit slow to lay the foundation, but eventually gets to very helpful, concrete strategies towards the end.

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great listen

great listen. very informative. well sequenced. great real life examples and accurate view on bad leaders and their characteristics

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  • 11-15-21

Awesome

Extremely useful. I recommend this to all those seeking a leadership position wether being a manager or a supervisor.

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  • Tummybug
  • 09-08-21

Dire.

This is the worst book that I ever got on Audible. I really enjoyed Chris Voss' "Never split the difference" and many suggested that it was a good companion to it. It just isn't in my opinion.
I failed to see a story line. To me, this book was just a collection of unrelated banal stories, badly told and not going in any particular direction. I was expecting to get some concrete examples of words to use and not to use like in Voss' book, and I gave up after chapter 4, not getting any. I found the narration awful; the narrator stops in the middle of sentences (eg. "The Tokyo olympic (pause) games". After a while, it just became too painful to listen to. There are many reviews on Amazon that say that the book needs to be more polished and it does. It sounds like drivel after a while. It was a really bad experience and huge disappointment to me.

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  • 06-16-21

Grrat book

Very interesting and well written. Recommend to anyone who has to work with others, not just leaders

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 05-30-21

A great listen

A perfect follow-on from Never Split the Difference. It's easy to listen to and is full of great advice.

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  • Gabriel Tuhoro
  • 08-10-21

Sensational!!

A must listen for any or aspiring leader. Derek Gaunt is an exceptional narrator. Thank you Derek.

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  • Alex Oliver
  • 04-29-21

Well Worth the Time

You might argue that Chris Voss put forward more ideas in his popular book “Never Split the Difference”. But if you aspire to make those ideas a part of your life, and not just something you’ve read, you might need to spend some time with Derek. “Ego Authority Failure” gives you the opportunity to absorb those key ideas with real human examples, and challenges you to start practicing them, so that you can see the results for yourself.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09-24-20

big let down...

i had purchased this book as the black swan group had heavily promoted it. i was expecting alot more real life examples and HOW TO segments on applying the techniques taught in that book to leadership scenarios however there were close to none. only the last 3 chapters cover a few of the concepts from never split the difference book. the rest if the book is just like a rehash of leadership theories and concepts. its dry and boring if you are looking for the real ' how to' of leadership. So as others said dont expect much and save your money and just relisten to the chris voss book never split the difference. this book is a waste of time.