• Gaslighting

  • How to Avoid a Narcissist’s Mind Control and Heal from Narcissistic Abuse
  • By: Patrick K. Simon
  • Narrated by: Chris Johnson
  • Length: 5 hrs and 1 min
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (26 ratings)

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You are a step away from learning about Gaslighting, including knowing if you are in a relationship with a gaslighter, and how to regain control and your sanity!

“Oh come on. Stop being too sensitive.”

“It was just a joke. Can’t you take a joke?”

“Why are you making a big deal out of something so small?”

“What is wrong with you? Can’t you do anything right?”

Do you have someone in your life who keeps belittling your concerns and making you feel like your concerns about something are invalid?

Does it always feel like you are always misunderstanding him/her because any time you point out something they said, they always turn things around to make you look like you have no idea of what you are saying?

Does that person one time call you stupid and the next time they are congratulating you about something?

If this is where you find yourself, then you are definitely dealing with a gaslighter. A gaslighter usually wants to manipulate you by doing or saying things that will question your reality, perceptions, and memory. They will make it seem like you are always misunderstanding them or misquoting them, you are always making a mountain out of a molehill, that your concerns are not valid. You may then end up not being free to express yourself, which can negatively affect your self-esteem, and make you doubt everything about yourself.

By virtue that you are reading this, it is clear that you want to put an end to gas lighting, for good and are looking for answers to many of the questions running through your mind...

How do you tell for sure that someone is a gas lighter? How do you see them for what they are, call them out and start taking steps to turn things around? How do you make the gas lighter to see what he/she does is wrong? Why does the gas lighter do what he/she does? How can you stop getting affected by the gas lighting strategies that the gas lighter in your life has been using on you? How do you take back the power from the gas lighter? How do you heal and build your self-esteem and confidence after being used by a gas lighter for so long?

If you have these and other related questions, this audiobook has some good news for you and that’s the fact that you can break from a gas lighter and have your sanity, confidence, and self-esteem back, for good! You can actually learn about gaslighting and take the necessary steps to deal with the gas lighter in your life.

And this audiobook will teach you everything you need to know about gaslighting and narcissistic abuse to know what to do if you are in such a situation.

More precisely, the audiobook will teach you:

  • What gaslighting really is
  • What makes someone a gaslighter
  • Why someone feels the need to gaslight
  • Specific techniques gaslighters use when gaslighting
  • Some of the effects of gaslighting and ways of dealing with them
  • How to disarm a gaslighter effectively
  • How to live with a gaslighter
  • How to heal from gaslighting
  • How to re-build confidence, self-love and self-trust
  • How to prevent a narcissist from coming into your life
  • And much more

Whether you just found yourself in a relationship with a gaslighter or someone has been gaslighting you for years, this audiobook is still for you!

Don't wait any longer to start your journey to recovery!

©2020 Patrick K. Simon (P)2020 Patrick K. Simon

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Eye opening!

I really enjoyed this book, it was eye opening. My spouse has been gaslighting me for years, and I was so confused that I really did think I was crazy.

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Stuttered narration

If you don’t like narration that sounds like this, then don’t buy this audiobook because you can’t tell where one sentence ends and another begins.

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Excellent

Excellent delineation between type of narcissism with examples that apply to spouses, parents, coworkers, etc.

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Excellent book on gaslighting

This book has helped me learn to avoid gaslighting in all my relationships. Patrick really gets to the point. I love how she describes the gaslighting stages and how to avoid them.

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Helpful book on important topic

So very helpful. I especially appreciated the sections that identify your own tendencies to perpetuate the gaslighting cycle and the lessons on how to avoid gaslighters in the future.

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Worth learning

Being able to understand how certain individuals may affect your general wellbeing is vital. One of the most important aspects was understanding that gaslighting can happen in nonrelational settings and target men as well.

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BEST book to understand

I was stuck in a loving relationship that was also making me feel broken inside. The book explains these games as gaslighting, how to identify them, and how to get out of them.

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The Gaslight Effect - Fantastic!

I love this book because it is extremely insightful and it guides you through what you 'think' is going on and what actually is: Reality.

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Cuts to the heart of gaslighting - what it is ...

Cuts to the heart of gaslighting - what it is, how to recognize it, what it does to its victims.

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A Must listen

A must listen for those in a gaslight relationship!! Patrick does an amazing job detailing the tools and knowledge you need to make the necessary change in your life.

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Awesome listen

If the rest of the book is as engaging as the introduction, this is a fabulous listen.

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  • Charles M. Brady
  • 05-30-20

Life-Changing

This heartfelt, highly informative and down-to-earth, easy-to-listen book sheds light on the destructive, narcissistic behaviors of gaslighters and how you can protect yourself and your loved ones from their toxicity.