• Getting Past No

  • Negotiating in Difficult Situations
  • By: William Ury
  • Narrated by: William Ury
  • Length: 2 hrs and 6 mins
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (1,141 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

We all want to get to "Yes", but what happens when the other person keeps saying "No"? How can you negotiate successfully with a stubborn boss, an irate customer, or a deceitful coworker?

In Getting Past No, William Ury of Harvard Law School’s Program on Negotiation offers a proven breakthrough strategy for turning adversaries into negotiating partners. You’ll learn how to:

  • Stay in control under pressure
  • Defuse anger and hostility
  • Find out what the other side really wants
  • Counter dirty tricks
  • Use power to bring the other side back to the table
  • Reach agreements that satisfies both sides' needs

Getting Past No is the state-of-the-art audiobook on negotiation for the 21st century. It will help you deal with tough times, tough people, and tough negotiations. You don’t have to get mad or get even. Instead, you can get what you want! 

©1991 William Ury (P)1991 Bantam Audio Publishing, Bantam Doubleday Dell Audio Publishing, A Division of Random House, Inc.

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Lots of good ideas

I needed a quick 'tutorial' before answering a difficult person that I am currently negotiating with. This was great. In 2 short hours, I had a pocketful of ideas which I used (and they worked!). It was very helpful to me. If the only available versions had been the longer ones (6 hours) , I probably would not have listened to anything, and not gained this valuable information.

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Good as quick read, otherwise Getting to Yes

Getting Past No contains many of the techniques and ideas that are fully developed in the original "Getting to Yes." If you are looking for a quick read, this is good - otherwise, I would go for the "full" version.

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The Bomb!

This Book is very good! I also bought "Getting to Yes" and this blew it away. A must listen.

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A faulty bridge

This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

I enjoy the topic but feel like I missed quite a bit of material. I went ahead and bought the kindle book to get anything I missed.

How would you have changed the story to make it more enjoyable?

The material was great in general. The techniques for negotiations make sense, but since I need this for a class the reduced version is not enough.

What do you think the narrator could have done better?

The narrator was very good, but the layout seemed to be most like Bob Ross Era style workplace training films (stereotypes included).

What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

Mostly I feel robbed of content. Abridged audio books are stupid and an awful investment. I wish I had caught that before I bought the abridge audio book.

Any additional comments?

Never buy abridged. If you are paying this much for audio books, then get your money's worth.

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What can I say! My mentor recommended me this book and I’m shocked on how many outcomes I could’ve changed if I had read this book before! Definitely recommended!

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Getting Past No

As a Mediator, this book is a must read on negoiation tips to help resolve conflicts with differing personalties, conflicts and finding win win.

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Ok book

The book is Ok for a 2 hours listen, but I have read/listened to much better books. It starts very slow also yet gradually catches up.

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Quick listen with powerful information.

Narration is capable of putting you to sleep but overall wonderful listen, I would highly recommend.

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One of my new favorite books!

This book caught my eye, so I grabbed it and downloaded the audiobook as well. The book has super valuable knowledge that I hope to be able to apply to the real word and the audio Preformance made everything super engaging and digestible

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must read for all comsultants

Are you in consulting business? read this book. what else is there to say?