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The updated version of the best-selling solution to grow your confidence, assertiveness, and self-esteem.

"Finally, a simple-to-follow methodology for growing your confidence and self-esteem - and one that actually works!" (Tom Ferris, author)

Cutting through the nonsense, this book offers a simple and easy-to-understand solution to growing your confidence, assertiveness, and self-esteem. No fancy gimmicks, just solid and actionable advice which can help you fast.

“A modern, fresh, and unique book, packed full of helpful advice.” (Linda Richards, businesswomen and speaker)

Some of the topics covered in this book include:

  • Quickly and easily overcome fear about social situations.
  • Always know what to say.
  • Build your self-esteem and confidence.
  • Learn the step-by-step process to increase confidence fast.
  • Effectively use body language and read other people.
  • Relate to others with ease and confidence.
  • Be assertive in any situation.
  • And so much more! 

"A wonderful book which has already helped countless people around the world." (Colin Bell, The Times)

"A joy to read and an even bigger joy to hear the success stories from past readers." (Jessica Anderson, Today)

©2019 Michelle Gates (P)2019 Michelle Gates

What listeners say about Grow Your Confidence, Assertiveness & Self-Esteem and Effective Modern Communication Skills: Two Books in One

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Life changing...really.

So good especially for people who are shy or have low self-esteem. I particularly lacked confidence in any sort of social situation, so these two books REALLY helped me a lot.

Amazing value considering two full books are in this package.

Highly recommended!

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Loved this!

Shocked about how much material this contained for such a cheap price. Genuinely fantastic and I am already feeling much more confident in so many areas of life.

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Superb collection of books.

I have had low confidence, self-esteem, shyness, social anxiety (or whatever you want to call it...I call it being unhappy!) for much of my life.

Sure I have been to see people (and spent a lot of money in the process) and at times this has made me feel a little better but the old feelings came back.

Sincerely, I feel I gained more from these books than two years in therapy.

I loved the real life case studies, I could relate to them so much and it helped me to see what other people did to feel better.

I have recommended this book package to two other people, both whom love it.

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More than happy to give this package of two awesome books fill marks.
I feel a lot more capable to handle social situations now with confidence, grace, effectiveness and without fear. Genuinely excellent books.

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"Changed my view of myself completely. "

This book helped me so much. I even gave it as a gift to a depressed relative. I used this while seeing a therapist, who told me that using this type of workbook without professional guidance can be tricky. Her help was a bonus, but the book is good on its own. I found this book a great guide to both looking at what we say to ourselves we need to change and guidance on what we need to say and think to bring us to where we need to be. I Highly recommend this audiobook. Even for those of us who have pretty good self-confidence, this book will help with guidance and exercises for those stubborn areas that still make us doubt ourselves.

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Perfect audiobook for everyone

This book is phenomenal. This book ultimately opened my mind to becoming a more giving and understanding person. If your shyness and fears drive you away from living life to the fullest and feel a surge of anxiety communicating with new people, it is high time to transform your life as well as unleash your super personality with concrete confident to control over yourself and other people surrounding you.

I now communicate honestly, openly and with confidence. Absolutely what I needed! Reminds of what I forgot and good for new information I didn’t know!

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There is a great deal with this audiobook

This audiobook is wonderful for self-reflection and building a love for yourself when it was a hard thing to do. The exercises are fantastic, but for me, they were a little slow-paced. I also participated in daily or every-other-day meditation in conjunction with this audiobook, and I am growing to love the person I am more every day! I've recommended this audio workbook to others already.

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Immensely tempting audio guide

This is a remarkable instrument with an abundance of data and a well-ordered manual for assistance the listener increase individual understanding toward self-awareness and change. The book offers an easy to use thorough way to deal with guide people to make durable and constructive life changes.

I believe this audiobook is beneficial... for the right listen, if self-esteem is the targeted issue I think the exercises are worth the time invested into the practices. I still found the information powerful and wonderfully presented.

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Should be a required listen for all men

Even if your self esteem and confidence is already high, there is much to be gleaned from this. For me, I didn't realize how low my esteem had become until giving this a listen. This meaty audio book is presently clearly and concisely. Within hrs of starting, I already began recognizing and changing self destructive thoughts and behaviors. Highly recommended.

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This audiobook helped me gain my Confidence back!

This audiobook has really helped me with my self-esteem issues. I still have a long way to go, but I’m on the right track. What I really liked about it is the no-nonsense approach in dealing with confidence issues. Unlike other self-help books I’ve listen, Michelle Gates has a way of delivering the facts as they are. There’s no sugar-coating and beating around the bush. This audiobook is in the Top 10 of my list!

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  • 03-01-20

Value is amazing

Cant believe they decided to combine these two books together, value for money is unbeatable.

LOVED both books, finding them great for my self-esteem and confidence issues, especially with new people, social / work situations etc.

Both narrators were great but would have much preferred if the same narrator did both books but that is just a niggle.

Grateful I got this package, feeling totally refreshed about life lately.

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  • K
  • 01-23-21

WOW!

Two amazing and highly praised books bundled together at this price?!?! A definite winner! Very excited to listen to both of these books, after previously having them both on kindle. Audible version is definitely better in my humble opinion.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-23-21

Confidence

Two books that have given me the much needed kick up the ass I needed!

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  • A.B.
  • 04-24-20

YES!

If you are looking to increase your confidence, become a better communicator and learn some quite unique ideas then this book package is for you. I have found it very useful and have already had several friends notice the change in me

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-13-20

Still the best

Already owned the modern communication book (which is amazing) but wanted the confidence one too so it made sense to get it as a bundle. 5 out of 5 is my score

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  • Thomas
  • 04-11-20

Grow your confidence

The best books for confidence, self esteem and social skills in general.

Found a remarkable improvement in my general communication, at work and in my personal life.

Good narration and production with both books.

Very good value for money.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-05-20

GOT IT

Confidence increased. Social and conversation skills increase. Self-esteem HUGELY increased. Very good narrators :-)
Thanks

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  • J
  • 04-05-20

BEST

I AM A VERY HAPPY CUSTOMER. TWO GOOD BOOKS WITH PLENTY OF VALUABLE AND INTERESTING INFO.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-10-20

Changing everything

Got this package of two books about a month ago I think....I hate to be too dramatic about it all but really, I feel my life has changed since. Not in any MAMMOTH way but I just feel like a new person. A more capable and happier person. Less scared. I cant thank the authors enough.

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  • 04-17-21

Confidence booster

Fantastic confidence and self-esteem booster which has really had a massive positive effect on my communication skills!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-07-21

Confidence - self esteem - communication

Confidence - self esteem - communication - social skills - confident assertiveness - these two books cover all of this and so much more.

Fresh and modern, it was a relief to finally find up to date books (so many other books in this field are so outdated, its embarassing!)

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  • 03-11-21

So glad I got this.

Recommendations in a Facebook group and reading a magazine review brought me here. Both books were interesting and informative but its the PRACTICAL information I liked. As someone else said, its the fact that both books give practical examples and step by step methods that really makes them stand out from other books. Confidence, self esteem, social skills etc are not always easy, its a rocky path, but these books will guide you the whole way.

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  • 10-29-20

Much more confident

I am incredibly grateful for both books, they have given me a new lease of life. I feel confident, in control, CALM and just "better" than I have for a very very long time.

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  • ListenEveryday
  • 09-25-20

Growing more confident everyday

Wow, once and a while a book (or in this case two books) comes along and changes everything. THIS is what these books have done for me and my life. I am 32 years old and feel I have just started again as a more confident, strong, calm, certain person.