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A crucial intervention for a society heading in the wrong direction, offering a new way to live in the modern age. Read by the author.

We are losing ourselves. We're chasing the wrong things, asking the wrong questions and polluting our minds. It's time to stop, it's time to resist and it's time to rethink the fundamental social blueprint that our lives are built upon.

As an 18-year-old, black, broke, lonely, insecure, university drop-out, from a bankrupt family, I wrote in my diary that I wanted to be a 'Happy Sexy Millionaire' by the age of 25. By 25 I was a multi-millionaire having created a business worth over 300 million dollars. Ironically, in achieving everything I set out to, I learnt that I was wrong about almost everything.... The world had lied to me. It lied to me about how you attain fulfilment, love and success, why those things matter and what those words actually mean.  

In this book, I'll dismantle the most popular, unaddressed lies about happiness that we've been led to believe. I'll expose the source of these lies, examine the incentives that fuel them and replace them with a practical set of scientifically proven and unconventional ideas that will help you to live a truly fulfilled life, a life full of the love you seek and the success you deserve.

©2020 Steven Bartlett (P)2020 Hodder & Stoughton Limited

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Bored

No idea why this book has got such good reviews. I really think it’s based on too much perception and not enough fact.

Ultimately this is someone bashing the internet of things society which his business set out to create… I don’t get it. Overpriced lacking substance.

Much better reads out there.

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Don’t Waste Another Moment Without This Masterpiece

From the monkey who stole Steven’s Airpods while he was writing the book secluded in an earthy jungle to the blissful precision of his quitting framework methodology, this book is filled with token after token of humor, bluntness, and eloquence on all things that will change your life.

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Great book!

It really resonated with me and Steven tells it like it is with no sugar coating. Excellent advise, great life stories and authenticity by Steven. I’m going to make this book a required reading for my entertainment promotion class!

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Contemporary, authentic and simple.

Steven relates profound existential and contemporary beliefs with contrasting realities in a non traditional, authentic and simple manner.

A good read and humble reminder of how we view success, love and meaning in what we do.

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Steven, you National Treasure you!

I’m aware, and so must Bartlett himself be, that the title is leaning on click-baity. So naturally I was hesitant, yet thinking: “if it’s anything like Diary of a CEO.. we’re Golden.”
People.. a more needed, hard-hitting, spirit uplifting game-changer of a book for anybody, especially in their twenties likely does not exist.
Thank you for you Steven.
I’m now a grateful Happy Sexy Paupernaire.

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On point

I know that book has that title for marketing and he even mentioned it , but the books dives deeper into mentality and concepts/ideas that are really practical for understanding one self . The book exceeded my expectations. Amen.

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awesome book

This is definitely an awesome book. Top 10 in my eyes 👀. I will be reading this multiple times

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One of the most real and inspiring self help books I’ve read.

I cannot say enough about the depth with which this author speaks. You can tell he’s done the hard work to get to this level of clarity and he tells you the lessons he’s learned through his experiences. He does not explicitly go through his process, but gives you some specifics on what you, as a reader can do right now to help yourself climb up society’s ladder, but that is not the point of this book by any means.

I loved hearing it read by the author- I’m American so it sounds extra fancy to be read to in a British accent. I’ve put his voice on a few other things I’ve read recently too. You can hear that he is genuine in his love and desire to share what’s truly important in this life and that he wants his readers to have the same levels of success in life that he’s had. He will call our societal brainwashing for what it is without going into politics.

I recommend this book for anyone who is looking for fulfillment and joy in their lives and who is ready to accept that for themselves.

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awesome, You are enough

I started this book and couldn't stop listening, what an awesome book, no truer words ever been spoken, "you are enough", Thanks Steven.

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Loved every bit of it

Amazing book, such an easy read and so glad it was read by Steven himself. Can’t wait for more books from him

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  • Darren Scott
  • 06-09-21

Self righteousness on steroids

This feels very much the work of someone who has read a lot of business and self-help books but has very little life experience. Having not even lived ten years as an adult, been married or had kids, Steven has the amazing ability to present his opinions of these life changing events as facts and as rules to follow. He rightly makes the observation that we are all very different as if that is a revelation on the scale of Relativity, but then makes grand sweeping statements on how to live your life as if we are all the same. Money doesn’t matter or make you happy - what everyone with money a miserable? He constantly reminds us that he is successful and wealthy and also claims to have mastered public speaking! The whole thing is very preachy, pretentious and opinionated, and also so woke that it steven feels very much like someone playing are role in their own life.

Very self-indulgent and a very dull story about a very short career. There are many better books about entrepreneurs and there journeys.

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  • LRB
  • 03-30-21

Absolutely amazing

My gosh where do I start. As a 27 year old Mum firstly I want to express that this book needs to be read by every young person in the world! Steven clearly has such a way with words, everything hits home and makes many other personal development books I’ve read seem meaningless. Chapter 19 hit the hardest. You’ve inspired me to really look at my life and work out where I want to go. I will now be purchasing the hard copy of the book as I feel I want to highlight and tab many pages and sections to refer to for the rest of my life. Simply amazing Steven!

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  • Craig
  • 11-02-21

Repetitive and not at all helpful

I really wanted to enjoy this as I like Steven Bartlett.
But this book just comes across as Jim trying to brag a little bit, like he still has a chip on his shoulder and needs people to see how successful he is. Ironically that's meant to be what the book advises against...
He mentions every 20 minutes or so how he has 700 staff, or a £200mil company valuation or charges X per hour for his very valuable time to the point it started to grate on me. Once you've validated yourself in the intro, you really don't need to do it every single chapter.
Also he claims the goal shouldn't be all work and focus on becoming a millionaire.... but that's exactly what got him there and allowed him from this position to decide it's not all that matters (despite him not offering any alternative things that do...).
I'd avoid this, there are significantly better books on happiness (Stumbling Upon Happiness) and far more successful entrepreneurs to read about also.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-31-21

Best book I have read so far

I have followed Steven on linkedin and instagram for a while now and his wisdom on both platforms resonate with my internal compass of how I see the world. Themes are constant and clear on all his platforms and now this book. I can summarize this book in one sentence he said "I am a guy and not a label". That statement encompasses the struggle between creating who we think we should be and what the world want us to be.

I enjoyed how fast he talked although in a particular chapter he went too fast and reduced pace Lol... which is human. It made the book more engaging than other audiobooks I have read recently.

Chapter 19 was it for me. It brings that soul crushing reality which every aware or unaware human needs, to wake up to whatever 'call' we think we have. I love facing realities and this book puts them in perspective.

Thank you Steven Bartlett for this wonderful piece. Always a fan and hope to learn more from you! 🙏🏾

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 10-07-21

Chapter 7 contradicts the rest

Well written & succinct but in earlier chapters, Steven describes, quite rightly, how we're all unhappy in the pursuit of more things. But in chapter 7 contradicts this by saying that having the choice of hundreds of genders is healthier than binary boxes. This is true for sexuality where the choices are limited but not gender as the latter creates exactly the same unhappiness through the pursuit of ever more things. With the number of genders on the increase all the time, it's a perfect example of pursuing a moving a target that will never allow you the gratitude to be happy, which is fundamentally the premise of the book.

Still definitely worth a listen but bringing gender into chapter 7 sadly aligns with pop culture far too readily when the book is arguing against it throughout

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  • Anonymous User
  • 05-24-21

A must read for any millennial.

I've made more notes from this book, than any other book I've listened to on Audible. Some truly eye opening perspectives in here, which prompt honest self reflection.

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  • Coralie Treherne
  • 04-06-21

Love this book!

Gives a valuable insight into getting your priorities straight and makes you reassess what’s truly important. Pre-ordered this book on Audible and think it’s a must have!

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  • Asif
  • 04-02-21

BOOM! Game changer

Amazingly simple to understand and I will take lots of life lessons from Steve’s words. The brutal honesty he delivers without the filtered lens is refreshing.

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  • Arun singh
  • 03-31-21

Amazing Book! Great listen

Love the business section, where he speaks about the hack and how he overcame it. Very insightful book!

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  • Sarvesh Chitnis
  • 05-24-22

Amazing book. Don't hesitate to pick this up.

One of the best books I read in 2021. This is modern day self help you need.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 02-23-22

Life Changer!

Wow! I didn’t want this book to end!
Authentic, real & raw! THANKYOU Steven for sharing your incredible story!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 05-12-22

Building career capital!

What a beautiful story and words of wisdom. I clip noted lots of parts to the book. Thanks Steven for narrating so eloquently your own piece of art!

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  • Rei
  • 02-20-22

such a great listen, and powerful messages!

Initially I thought this book did not apply to me, as I am not affected at all by social media, but I am glad I finished listening to it. Steve shares many more powerful messages and lessons that are just invaluable. Thanks for writing this book Steve!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-29-22

Time is what you should care about

Not the usual personal development book!! A refreshing approach to life and a great reminder that the only thing that matters is how we spend our time.

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  • Camila de Oliveira Machado
  • 09-21-21

So real and relatable!

Thank you Steven! You not only created a manual for self development but you made it so relatable that it feels achievable by anyone as long as they know what drives them. thank you so much!

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  • Tofe Evans
  • 08-23-21

would recommend

Steven has a eloquent way of explaining his journey with elegance and to the point. would recommend!

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  • Joshua
  • 08-12-21

Pretty decent

Good stuff overall,

had some elements of practical things you can apply in day to day life.