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How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk
- The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind
- Narrated by: Alexander Cendese
- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Based on years of research on marital and premarital happiness, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk will help you break destructive dating patterns that have kept you from finding the love you deserve. With this book, you will learn how to:
- Ask the right questions to inspire meaningful, revealing conversations with your partner
- Judge character based on compatibility, relationship skills, friends, and patterns from family and previous relationships
- Resolve your own emotional baggage so you're ready for a healthy relationship
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- Jameson
- 08-06-18
One of Top Relationship/Dating books!
Having gone through a divorce (one that I spend the last 4-yrs of trying to save) and now dating for the last 3 yrs trying to make sure that the next marriage lasts forever, I've read a lot of relationship books and this is right at the top. The author does an amazing job explaining the proper and ordered steps of building a healthy relationship. I've recommended to a number of friends and they've felt the same way.
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- Alyn D.
- 01-24-19
Advice About Dating I Wish I'd Known Sooner!
This book is a MUST READ for everyone in the dating world (or about to enter the dating world). I think it should be mandatory reading before you graduate from high school so that you know what a healthy relationship does or does not look like. I read this after going through a messy divorce in preparation for learning what I did wrong in my marriage - Did I marry a jerk to begin with? Or, was I the jerk? If so, I didn't want to repeat the same mistake twice!
This was my first every Audible book, and I never thought I'd enjoy LISTENING to a book, but it's great to do while you're driving in the car. I'm hooked on Audible books now!
7 people found this helpful
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- Rubytooshoes
- 11-22-17
Thought provoking
This book was recommended to me by someone who wants me to have a lasting healthy relationship.
It’s given me a lot to think about and helped clarify what a good relationship is.
I don’t agree with everything Dr. Van Epp said in this book, but he makes a great deal of sense.
I would recommend this book to everyone seeking a good relationship, especially to young people just starting to date.
6 people found this helpful
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- Craig Rider
- 08-17-20
Good content, terrible reader
The content is super valuable. The reader is hard to listen to and sounds like he is sneering arrogantly through the entire audiobook.
5 people found this helpful
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-22-20
solid and powerful suggestions for singles.
I am listening a second time so I can get more of the information into my heart and mind. This information needs to be part of who I am not just something I have heard.
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- KayGee
- 02-10-20
Great book to read before dating
I really enjoyed th is book and want to utilize the information. I will most likely listen to the audio book 2 more times to reinforce. the narrator's voice sounded very mysterious and kept me interested the entire time.
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- JoAnn N.
- 01-07-20
from a 58 year old widow and divorcee
I found every point valid and helpful. I especially appreciate the research that backs everything up.
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- Michelle Peets
- 03-06-18
Phenomenal. Would recommend to anyone single.
This book was everything I needed to understand in order to break the cycle of dating individuals who are destructive to both my mental health and theirs.
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- jeff
- 10-05-21
Just a great book all around!
Well rounded, helping you to understand yourself, your relationship, and your partner on many levels and in depth. Good stuff! Highly recommend.
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- Bao
- 08-12-20
why did nobody tell me about this book earlier...
this is one of those books that everyone looking at building a great relationship should read this book was not only informative it was fun to read and so eye opening in many ways I'm glad I read it The RAM model is something people looking to build great relationships should know about it just makes sense and there's science behind it
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- Martine
- 05-19-19
Antiquated
It’s a marriage guidance book with a jazzed up title to draw in modern readers. I was disappointed.