• How to Be the Girl Who Gets the Guy

  • How Confident and Self-Assured Women Handle Dating with Class and Sass
  • By: Leslie Braswell
  • Narrated by: Brittany Goodwin
  • Length: 2 hrs and 47 mins
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (235 ratings)

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How to Be the Girl Who Gets the Guy

By: Leslie Braswell
Narrated by: Brittany Goodwin
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Publisher's Summary

Simple advice to help women who are stuck in relationship limbo or dealing with men who won’t commit. In this audiobook, you’ll listen to how confident, self-made, no BS kind of women handle the dating game and have the time of their life in the process. In this audiobook, you’ll learn:

  • How to let go of clingy, insecure behavior that sends men looking for an escape route.
  • How to attain the kind of confidence men love.
  • How to be Independent without being masculine.
  • What to do when a man tells you he’s not looking for a serious relationship.
  • When and how to use the “No Contact” rule.
  • Tips to keep you date night ready at all times.
  • Why bending over backward trying to please every man you date never works.
  • Ways to use your femininity to your advantage, even if you’re not the feminine type.
  • How to maintain a little mystery in your life.
  • Why financial independence is key to your happiness.
  • What to do when he pulls.
  • How to handle being stuck in relationship limbo.
  • What to do when a man stops calling.
  • Social media do’s and don’ts.
  • The benefits of dating multiple men.
  • How to stop playing hard to get and start being hard to get.
  • And so much more.

If insecurities and self-doubt bring out the worst in you, it is time retrain your way of thinking to attract love into your life. Whether going through a breakup, diving back into the dating pool, stuck in relationship limbo or trying to get your ex back after a break-up, this audiobook is for you. You’ll learn how the most irresistible, confident, self-assured women handle dating with little effort and a lot of class and sass.

©2017 Leslie Braswell (P)2020 Leslie Braswell

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Waste of time

This book sounds like it was written by my 16 year old daughter and her friends. Complete waste of time for any woman that has any idea of how to date already. I listened to the entire thing waiting to see if it got better.... it definitely did not.
An example of her dating advice... always have a designer purse in your closet ready to go, never look “homeless” (which was said numerous times), do your nails every 2-3 weeks, only like every 4th post of his on Facebook, only comment on posts that you are mentioned in 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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Simple information

This information seemed basic: dress nice, wear basic make up, have a clean house, don't seem to eager, and have some manners. If you are new to dating or need a good basic review or fresh start, this is a good 3 hour review.

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Skip this Book if you’re a strong, independent woman

Really?! That was my common thought after hearing her very old fashioned mixed with current day technology & one-sided, gibberish theories.

It truly sounds like she doesn’t want you to BE YOURSELF, but rather how to give great first (and false) impressions. “Hide your bills, clean up your place....” What a shocker when he realized months later you’re not an organized person but only did in the beginning to trap him.

She mentions great girls know a $40 steak doesn’t equal another date or good time- ummm, why is he paying? It sounded like she just uses guys for free dinners when she said to have fun & date a lot of guys at the same time, get your free dinner!

Skip this book. It’s BS.

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Confidence not clingy

An excellent guide for all individuals male or female entering a relationship.
Would love to see it re-recorded gender friendly.

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good

love it. easy to listen. nice voice. good story, smart opinions. will re listen again.

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Encouraging

Love this book. This is very encouraging. A lot of women should read this. Soak it in.

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Flipping

This book confirms why women have to do everything to get and keep a man and also why women stay in abusive relationships.

We should not have to flip over backwards to get or keep a man.

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Relatable

I enjoyed this and view it as a reminder of our own behaviors and limitations. I appreciated the insight. very helpful

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I’m literally getting stupider listening to this.

First of all, when was this written? Who goes to the office these days?

Secondly, the message is be your confident self, but make sure you are dressed up with makeup and perfume (wow, that’s awfully sexist). Then the author tells the story of a guy who asked a woman out while she is all sweaty with grass in her hair because she had been mowing the lawn. Mixed messages.

I haven’t gotten much farther. Thinking of asking for a refund. My intelligence is insulted.

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Nothing you don’t already know.

Toooo simple. Stuff your mother told you. Things that you learned your first year of dating.

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  • 03-16-21

Excellent

Great tips on being more confident, raising your standards, vibration and being fabulous inside and out. Beautifully narrated too. Listened to it a few times as it's so good. Like a life coach in a book.