• Infidelity: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

  • A Program for Couples after Suffering Emotional Abuse Trauma, Affair and Deceit in Marriage. It Includes Divorcing and Healing from a Narcissist.
  • By: John T. Collins PsyD, Rachel Collins MD
  • Narrated by: Mary Johnson
  • Length: 11 hrs
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (12 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Should I stay or should I go?

When infidelity happens in your marriage, it shakes up a relationship like you wouldn't believe. Actually, yes, you can believe it; having an affair is one of the worst things you can do. It completely rips out any ounce of trust that you have for that person within a matter of seconds.

Figuring out how to get over infidelity is extremely difficult, and it can be one of the most significant relationship hurdles you will ever overcome. It is a gut-wrenching process, regardless of the decision you make - whether it is to leave your marriage or stay put.

In this situation, you ask yourself these: How do I survive this? How can I move past this betrayal?

This audiobook covers:

  • Defining Infidelity
  • Types of Affairs
  • Causes of Infidelity
  • Infidelity as Trauma
  • Do’s and Don’ts After Discovering Infidelity
  • How to Overcome Hurt and Rage
  • How to Rebuild Trust and Intimacy
  • Understanding Your Unfaithful Partner
  • Case Studies
  • How to Prevent Infidelity
  • Practical Program to Heal Infidelity and Love Again
  • Long-Term Benefits of Rebuilding Lost Trust
  • Concrete Steps Towards Healing
  • Bonus: How to Overcome Co-Dependency and How to Heal from a Narcissist Relationship
  • And much more...

There will never be the correct words or mannerisms you can do or say during a breakup; it will be tragic and painful, especially if other family members or kids are involved. Respect and an amicable separation are something I preach for; you will appreciate it in the end.

If you know this is something you have both wanted for a while, but unfortunately, it had to end due to an affair, this may be a weight lifted off your shoulders.

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©2020 John T. Collins, PsyD & Rachel Collins, MD (P)2020 John T. Collins, PsyD & Rachel Collins, MD

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The audio voice is horrible.

I was very excited to listen to this on audible. But within minutes the women's voice is so bad that it's impossible to listen to. She ends every sentence with a drawn out word. I recommend buying the book if you don't want to go through what I just attempted...

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it sounds like a computer is reading this.

Dont buy unless you like the way a computer reading sounds. content seems good, but the book is so hard to listen to!

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Marvelous !!

This book looks at all aspects of whether a person should remain in a relationship or should leave and does so in a very un-biased way, examining both sides of the issues in depth.

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Amazing Guidebook!!

Anyone who grew up with a narcissist knows how difficult it is to do those things. I finally have a positive outlook on life and a sense of peace that I have never known before.

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Perfect Book!!

I think this book has been a great asset in helping me to get past my past. I finally believe that what happened to me was not my fault and I am learning to love myself.

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Beautiful audio book!!

I got my life going in a different direction. So so incredibly hard and traumatic... this book added to my thought process.

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Gorgeous Book!!

One of my stepping stones to a new life. I like to analyze and unpack, so this worked for me. Together with psychological support, friends and family, and relationship work,

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Great info on narcissistic marriage if you choose

This is one of the best books I have listen on this subject the other is "Is It Me" by Emotional Abuse. This book is invaluable if you need to stay in a narcissistic marriage for whatever reason.

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A beacon of hope

you're in the mist, fumbling to find why your partner is on and off, hot and cold, close and distanced, this book will help. It's lengthy contextual explanations take the reader by the hand in a living way .

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Should I stay this or Should I continue to suffer

All joking aside, if you are in a relationship with someone who yells, hits, or abuses you in any way, I advise you to keep this book at a friend's house so you won't tip your hand if you are seriously thinking of leaving.

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Terrible narration

A complete waste of money! I don’t know if the narrator actually is a robot, but the narration is so bad I couldn’t even get through the first chapter. Spend some money on a decent narrator before you take money from people who have already been through a pretty hard time!!

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