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Infidelity: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- A Program for Couples after Suffering Emotional Abuse Trauma, Affair and Deceit in Marriage. It Includes Divorcing and Healing from a Narcissist.
- Narrated by: Mary Johnson
- Length: 11 hrs
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Publisher's Summary
Should I stay or should I go?
When infidelity happens in your marriage, it shakes up a relationship like you wouldn't believe. Actually, yes, you can believe it; having an affair is one of the worst things you can do. It completely rips out any ounce of trust that you have for that person within a matter of seconds.
Figuring out how to get over infidelity is extremely difficult, and it can be one of the most significant relationship hurdles you will ever overcome. It is a gut-wrenching process, regardless of the decision you make - whether it is to leave your marriage or stay put.
In this situation, you ask yourself these: How do I survive this? How can I move past this betrayal?
This audiobook covers:
- Defining Infidelity
- Types of Affairs
- Causes of Infidelity
- Infidelity as Trauma
- Do’s and Don’ts After Discovering Infidelity
- How to Overcome Hurt and Rage
- How to Rebuild Trust and Intimacy
- Understanding Your Unfaithful Partner
- Case Studies
- How to Prevent Infidelity
- Practical Program to Heal Infidelity and Love Again
- Long-Term Benefits of Rebuilding Lost Trust
- Concrete Steps Towards Healing
- Bonus: How to Overcome Co-Dependency and How to Heal from a Narcissist Relationship
- And much more...
There will never be the correct words or mannerisms you can do or say during a breakup; it will be tragic and painful, especially if other family members or kids are involved. Respect and an amicable separation are something I preach for; you will appreciate it in the end.
If you know this is something you have both wanted for a while, but unfortunately, it had to end due to an affair, this may be a weight lifted off your shoulders.
Ready to get started? Click "buy now"!
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- Luis
- 10-24-20
Fantastic book!!
I bought this for some teenagers I know who are trying to plan their postsecondary studies.
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- Cooper
- 10-23-20
Informative tips!!
This book is split into three parts: biology and the basics, the taste for a new affair, as well as discovery, disclosure, and healing.
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- Meg
- 06-16-21
it sounds like a computer is reading this.
Dont buy unless you like the way a computer reading sounds. content seems good, but the book is so hard to listen to!
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- Jesus
- 10-24-20
I really enjoyed this audible!!
Brilliant in everything! From content, never trivial, to graphics. A great cue for life reflections and suggestions.
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- Carlos
- 10-24-20
A Very helpful and useful audible !!
Very helpful and an enjoyable listen. I have recommended this book to all my friends, a perfect gift for that confused twenty something in your life
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- Hayden
- 10-24-20
Interesting to listen !!
Highly recommended to listen entertaining and inspiring. Authors renounce the otherwise usual teaching style. !
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- Juan
- 10-24-20
What an excellent resource!
I cannot put into words how much I LOVE this book! It is like someone listen my heart and mind and wrote a book especially for me.
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- Adam
- 10-23-20
Excellent easy book!!
If you're an emotionally sophisticated person some of the material here will not include news, in fact, I will daresay most of it will not be. The books primary value is collecting much information in one place.
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- Josiah
- 10-23-20
Very nice book!
I appreciate the nuanced approach this book takes. I was particularly tickled by the introduction which sets the stage with a discussion that is long overdue in psychology-
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- Oliver
- 10-23-20
This book is beautiful!!
I wanted to listen this book because of the promise to shed new information based on what we now know about brain biology, neuroscience and addiction theory.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-09-21
Terrible narration
A complete waste of money! I don’t know if the narrator actually is a robot, but the narration is so bad I couldn’t even get through the first chapter. Spend some money on a decent narrator before you take money from people who have already been through a pretty hard time!!