It'ѕ ѕо easy tо lіѕtеn tо thе voices іn уоur hеаd in order tо bе ѕеduсеd bу thеіr аnаlуtісаl deductions. Thеу leave nо lеаf unturned. Thеу guide you thrоugh thе murkу wаtеrѕ оf fеаr аnd insecurity, аnd ultіmаtеlу leave you having ассоmрlіѕhеd...absolutely nоthіng! Overthinking is the cancer of the 21st century.

Are you tired of failed romantic relationships and friendships? Have your previous partners told you that you are "too possessive" or "jealous"? Do you feel yourself burn with jealousy when you see your partner talking with some attractive acquaintance? Do you go through your partner's things or demand detailed explanations of where they have been? Most people know this isn't the foundation for successful relationships, and they would like to stop reacting this way, but how? Author Jessica Riley outlines a 10-step plan for overcoming these hang-ups.

Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and community. But if you are denied these basic comforts early in life through a lack of physical affection or emotional bonding, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthood - fears so powerful that they can actually cause you to push people away. If you suffer from fears of abandonment, you may have underlying feelings of anger, shame, fear, anxiety, depression, and grief.

In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.

In the early stages of a relationship, people may get feelings of insecurity leading to more anxiety. You can experience worrying thoughts such as, “Does this person really like me?” “How serious is this relationship?” “Will it work out?” Usually, if you love someone deeply, and he/she breaks your heart, chances are, you will avoid being vulnerable. On a certain level, we all fear being hurt, consciously or unconsciously. Ironically, this fear tends to increase when we are getting what we want. 

You probably wonder if this book contains those secrets necessary to eliminate all your anxieties, all your fears, in short, all those monsters that make it impossible to live peacefully. Here's a secret right now. There is no secret. There is no magic formula that, when applied to the letter, solves all your insecurities. So stop looking for what doesn't exist and start focusing your attention on what will really make the difference: yourself. Are you willing to make a commitment to yourself? Are you willing to pay the price of the change? 

We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.

The fear of abandonment typically results in a person unintentionally engaging in behaviors that push other people away, thus leading to their worst fear... that of being abandoned. Then being abandoned causes the person to fear abandonment even more in the future. Therein lies the problem of this type of fear being a self-perpetuating downward spiral that can only get worse and worse - unless you decide to do something about it.  

Do you feel anxious or insecure in your relationship? Does your relationship feel oddly one-sided? If so - This is the perfect bundle for you! If you're like most of us, you've been through dramatic break-ups and painful conflicts...and you want to stop repeating the same mistakes and finally have a perfect relationship. Codependency can be hard to recognize. This is why you need to know its early signs so that you can take action immediately - especially if your partner is a narcissist.

Do you find yourself suspicious, mistrustful, and regularly doubting others motives? Trust issues can rob you of intimacy, real friendships, and closeness with those around you. People may have hurt you in the past, but if this is negatively impacting your present - you’re keeping yourself from finding personal happiness. You don’t have to live this way. Feelings of jealousy, suspicion, betrayal, and loneliness all come from the same root cause - fear!

Do you find it difficult to maintain a successful romantic relationship? Do you see the same behavior patterns emerge in your relationships from time to time? Are you constantly worried that everything will end in a heartbreak? Is it possible to predict in advance the probability of a relationship's success or failure? Whether we are aware of it or not, our childhood experiences play a huge role in producing the type of people we become.

When people first get into a relationship, the early days are nothing short of magic, and the lovers are all over each other, staring at one another with wistful eyes, and they have not a grain of doubt that they have finally met “the one”! But then, months (or years) later, where there was stomach butterflies upon seeing each other, there’s an understated loathe and distrust, and maybe, one or both partners are no longer excited about having sex.

Overthinking is a toxic behavioral pattern for relationships, and chances are you already have a first-hand experience of that. Most of the time, a simple unanswered call or text can trigger a spiral or ruminations and dreadful scenarios that leave you emotionally and physically drained. Experts agree that one of the most common triggers for overthinking patterns is insecurity, which can lead to anxiety and depression. 

The truth is that emotions - whether good or bad - are inescapable parts of human beings. Unfortunately, most people tend to have trouble dealing with their emotions and feelings, resulting in an immense amount of suffering that hinders them from enjoying life. Maybe, you are one of those people who get carried away by your emotional state or desperately suppress or numb them.

Many relationship problems are caused by insecurity and lack of self-esteem. The drama escalates up to a point when neither of you can take it any longer. But when your self-esteem is not too high and not too low, you feel secure with your partner. You love them and you’re sure that they love you too. You have no reason to be clingy or jealous, and you can solve most misunderstandings with sincere and respectful communication. This book will teach you how to build such a relationship.