• Loving a Narcissist: How to Turn a Narcissist into a Loving & Selfless Person

  • By: Amber Lyne
  • Narrated by: Kaylan McKinney
  • Length: 51 mins
  • 3.7 out of 5 stars (46 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

"At last, an easy way to instantly improve your relationship with a narcissist!"

Do you feel trapped in your relationship with a narcissist who shows an extreme lack of empathy? Someone arrogant with rude and abusive behaviors or attitudes? Or someone who is highly reactive to criticism, have a low self-esteem, and react with anger or rage to contrary viewpoints?

All the above traits are very common with people with a narcissistic personality disorder and studies have estimated approximately 17 percent of the general population as being narcissists.

It may not be you, but your love one or someone you work with or interact with in social settings who has a narcissistic personality. Either way, you're suffering from your relationship or interaction with these people, and here is where you will discover the secrets that will immediately change your relationship and your life with a narcissist.

How to Turn the Most Telling Narcissist into a Loving Unselfish is exactly the ultimate solution you have been looking for! With simple and practical techniques, you will learn how to change your behavior and that of your narcissistic partner, so that he can become a more loving, and less self-absorbed individual.

You can save your relationship and make it the one of your dreams. You will feel more connected to your partner emotionally, feel some freedom in your relationship, and effectively deal with the changes necessary for both you and your partner to be happy.

To find out how? Listen to this audiobook now.

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Not very helpful

I feel like this book was not very helpful. It portrayed mainly narcissists who are willing to get help but as we all know most narcissists will not seek help because they never see that they have a problem.

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helped me to understand the narcissist

this book helped me to see what behaviors I could change to stop the drama and take back control of my emotions. knowing why they behave that way helped me take back my own power.

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No Meat.

I found this rather slow and weak. When you are in a relationship with this type of person, you need tangible, practical help not philosophy.

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Okay when only dealing with Narcissistic traits.

I think this is quite an unrealistic view of a true narcissist. The strategies mentioned could possibly help with someone who has narcissistic traits, but for someone who actually has a narcissistic personality this would probably only lead to prolong the suffering for the partner.

I found this a painful book as it played on my wishes that I could manage my partner to have a successful relationship even though I know this is unfounded in actual psychiatric research.

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Ridiculous premise

If Amber is dealing with people who are simply self-absorbed and not pathological, the pointers could be valid. The problem is that those who truly have a personality disorder cannot be changed -- and certainly not into a "Loving & Selfless Person." So the entire premise is presented for the gullible target of somebody who can actually be very punitive, malignant, and unable to ever HAVE compassion nor empathy. If you are in such a relationship, the only cure for you is to GET OUT. Following Amber's advice will only lead to endless frustration -- and only those who've experienced it can genuinely understand.

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definitely not the best

It was nice that it was short.. could have been a lot better. Didn't really get to what I needed.

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I am living with a narcissistic and this is not all that helpful. It sounds more like treatment for a spoiled young kid who needs a swat on the bottom. My spouse is a narc with not 1 ounce of empathy. I will not be a doormat for any narc and I will not coddle their behavior. I do realize there is almost no hope for a narcissistic personality disorder. We’ve been in and out of Counselling and that is is only way of keeping the narc in line. Making them take ownership is the only way to open their eyes. I realize the writer is trying to help but I have first hand experience and this would never work for me.

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got to main necessity kept focus front and center!

narrator managed to keep telling core hard facts with a personal tone which kept me listening

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I'll be more mindful

Well worth the money. Gave me hope for the future. I'm going to implement change asap