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Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Revised Edition
- How to Stop Hidden Anger from Spoiling Your Relationships, Career, and Happiness
- Narrated by: Peter Coleman
- Length: 10 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Categories: Health & Wellness, Psychology & Mental Health
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Publisher's Summary
In Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Dr. Tim Murphy and Loriann Hoff Oberlin provide an in-depth look at a topic we've all faced but haven't always recognized: Hidden anger.
When people don't express their views and feel compelled to conceal their true beliefs and emotions, behaving in ways that don't match what they honestly think, there can be serious physical and psychological results for everyone involved.
For the first time, Murphy and Oberlin offer a clear definition of passive-aggression and show listeners not only how to end the behavior, but also how to avoid falling victim to other people's hidden anger. In clear, compassionate language, they cover everything from the childhood origins of the condition to the devastating effect it has on work and personal relationships to the latest research on the subject, and offer practical, proven strategies for the angry person as well as the individual who finds himself the target of someone else's passive-aggression.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your Library section along with the audio.
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- Robert
- 12-15-16
Must have book to understand difficult behavior
If you could sum up Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Revised Edition in three words, what would they be?
Comprehensive resource for dealing with difficult people
What did you like best about this story?
This audio book covers the gamut of arenas where we all find difficult people -- personal life, school, relationships, workplace, in helping professions -- basically all around us.
Have you listened to any of Peter Coleman’s other performances before? How does this one compare?
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What did you learn from Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Revised Edition that you would use in your daily life?
Overcoming Passive-Aggression steps listeners/readers through what we too often see as controlling, manipulative, self-absorbed or sometimes lazy or down in the dumps behavior. The book explores where the behaviors come from, how this makes up the passive-aggressive persona, and why it leaves others (bosses, coworkers, significant others) frustrated. Through modern, easy to understand examples we can see the behavior play out and we can also see how to respond to it assertively so that we do not become so angry ourselves. This resources is a must-have for managers. Its multicultural perspectives aid in grasping the concepts that affect people of varying ages, ethnic backgrounds, and positions in life. Overall, very well done.
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- runnergirl
- 06-14-21
The kitchen sink of mental health issues
This book was not at all what I was looking for. Although it touched on some passive-aggression topics, it was much more of an overview on many mental health topics. And it focused on those providing therapy to patients, not to the layperson wanting to "Stop Hidden Anger from Spoiling Your Relationships, Career, and Happiness". I listened to the whole audiobook hoping it would get better but it did not so I have returned it.
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