• Raising Raffi

  • The First Five Years
  • By: Keith Gessen
  • Narrated by: Keith Gessen
  • Length: 6 hrs and 7 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (15 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

“A wise, mild and enviably lucid book about a chaotic scene.” —Dwight Garner, The New York Times

Raising Raffi is tender and generous.” —New York magazine

NAMED A MOST ANTICIPATED BOOK OF 2022 BY LIT HUB & THE MILLIONS

An unsparing, loving account of fatherhood and the surprising, magical, and maddening first five years of a son’s life

“I was not prepared to be a father—this much I knew.”

Keith Gessen was nearing forty and hadn’t given much thought to the idea of being a father. He assumed he would have kids, but couldn’t imagine what it would be like to be a parent, or what kind of parent he would be. Then, one Tuesday night in early June, the distant idea of fatherhood came careening into view: Raffi was born, a child as real and complex and demanding of his parents’ energy as he was singularly magical.

Fatherhood is another country: a place where the old concerns are swept away, where the ordering of time is reconstituted, where days unfold according to a child’s needs. Whatever rulebooks once existed for this sort of thing seem irrelevant or outdated. Overnight, Gessen’s perception of his neighborhood changes: suddenly there are flocks of other parents and babies, playgrounds, and schools that span entire blocks. Raffi is enchanting, as well as terrifying, and like all parents, Gessen wants to do what is best for his child. But he has no idea what that is.

Written over the first five years of Raffi’s life, Raising Raffi examines the profound, overwhelming, often maddening experience of being a dad. Gessen traces how the practical decisions one must make each day intersect with some of the weightiest concerns of our age: What does it mean to choose a school in a segregated city? How do you instill in your child a sense of his heritage without passing on that history’s darker sides? Is parental anger normal, possibly useful, or is it inevitably authoritarian and destructive? How do you get your kid to play sports? And what do you do, in a pandemic, when the whole world seems to fall apart? By turns hilarious and poignant, Raising Raffi is a story of what it means to invent the world anew.

©2022 Keith Gessen (P)2022 Penguin Audio

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Great for non parents too

Im not a parent but it was interesting to hear about raising a family in Brooklyn.

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Lovely!

Gem for any parent of a small kid. Relatable, honest, and kind. Great gift for a Father’s Day :)

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A Good Dad

Keith Gessen comes across as a good Dad in “Raising Raffi.” He describes with deadpan humor his frustrations with his son Raffi’s anger and misbehavior. Overall, both father and son are affable. The book is filled with insights into raising kids today, with thoughtful chapters on home birth, bilingual kids, picture books, school choice, sports and the pandemic. Little Raffi isn't really the terror his father sometimes claims. He's just a New York kid trying to understand his world. I picked this book because I liked “A Terrible Country,” Gessen’s novel about his year caring for his grandmother in Moscow. This new book shows how autobiographical that novel was. Gessen is an amiable narrator.