• Sis, Don't Settle

  • How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart
  • By: Faith Jenkins
  • Narrated by: Faith Jenkins
  • Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (746 ratings)

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By: Faith Jenkins
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Publisher's Summary

Date smarter, make better decisions in love, and achieve the relationship you deserve.... It all starts with not settling!

By day, Faith Jenkins is the host of the nationally syndicated TV show Divorce Court; by night, she’s a happily married newlywed who navigated these dating streets for years before learning how to attract the love of her dreams.   

When she turned 35 without a wedding ring in sight, like most women, she started getting tons of questions about not being married. But she made a decision: I. Will. Not. Settle.  

As an attorney and arbitrator, Faith has presided over hundreds of cases, and has helped couples avoid and resolve a wealth of drama. And she’s seen it all! In Sis, Don’t Settle, she’s gathered an arsenal of love, wisdom, and advice for women on how to play it smart. 

Modern culture would have women believe they can’t have it all — and be smart, successful, strong women with authentic love to boot. Wrong. Told in her signature style — sometimes salty and sometimes sweet — Faith provides real solutions that will teach you how to thrive in relationships while avoiding common missteps and pitfalls. She delivers it straight, with no chaser, to show us how to level up, and reminds you that how you live single will set the tone for your success in relationships.

Smart, illuminating, and, often laugh-out-loud funny, Sis, Don’t Settle is the essential playbook that will help you build your confidence, generate better results in love, and land a high-value relationship once and for all. You’ll find tips on topics like:

  • Strong independent women…and the men who love them
  • What’s worse than a bad relationship? Overextending your stay in one
  • Becoming the right person to attract the right person  
  • How to release trash subconscious beliefs that keep you settling
  • And much more!

Whether you’re single, divorced, or in a situationship, Sis, Don’t Settle reveals the direction and guidance you need to navigate love and take back your power.

©2021 Faith Jenkins (P)2021 Legacy Lit

Critic Reviews

“Listen to Faith. This book is great!” (Steve Harvey, New York Times best-selling author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man)

"Judge Faith Jenkins is the personification of what it means to live by faith! I was honored to marry her and her husband, the legendary Kenny Lattimore, and I know first-hand that she is a testament to never settling for less especially when it comes to love. I have no doubt her story, her wisdom, and her insights will motivate every reader to never settle for less than their worth!" (DeVon Franklin, New York Times best-selling author of The Wait)

"I was relieved that Sis Don't Settle is not about "catching" a man. This easy, wise, and often funny read is about recognizing your innate worth. Read this book. Love yourself. Then, expect more love to enter your life." (Tina Lifford, author of The Little Book of Big Lies)

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Great book for singles.

Great book to read before saying I do. So many advices and things to consider

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Great insight

Thank you for ur honesty in this book. I’m married however this book has taught me not to settle but continue to love on me and go for the love life I want.

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Slow start for me and was hard to listen to. I couldn't finish it. I really wanted to love it.

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Loved it!

Where was this book 10 years ago? I loved everything about this book and author. I definitely am taking away lots of pointers and feel that it’s guiding me to be a better me not just to find my future forever love.

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It’s okay

I appreciated the message, however I didn’t learn anything new or heard anything different. It’s the typical dating/ self help book.

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So much inspiration! She’s amazing!

I don’t typically do book reviews but I had to for this one. I will be reading this book again. One of the BEST books I’ve read since my divorce. I gained so much from her sharing her experiences. This was so helpful as I begin to navigate life as a newly single woman. I learned a lot.

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Great book!

I really enjoyed how raw and real this book is. I’m definitely putting some things in to play and look forward to more.

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Insightful

Thank you Judge Faith Jenkins!
The most helpful, knowledgeable and insightful book read so far!

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must read

I luv it so much I believe it help me in so many ways something I needed to hear

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Real Talk on Real Love

Faith’s candid and caring advice is long overdue.
We have settled- but for what? She reveals what many of us have known all along, but were too ‘emotionally-blinded’ by our emotions and desires to address.

Thanks Sis for giving us a booster of reality and the motivation to respect and expect the best for ourselves in both love and life!!

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  • RosePetal86
  • 09-13-22

hidden gem

I picked this audiobook at random I had no idea who faith was but I'm so glad i picked it up, this book helped me to learn something, laugh and think deeply about what I want out of a parent and also the partner that I want to become. Thoroughly enjoyed this book.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09-11-22

Amazing book, a must read

Loved every bit of it, a must read if you want to have a beautiful marriage

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  • diana
  • 04-21-22

Honest and helpful

I really liked this book easy to listen and finished it after 2 days. Every chapter was insightful, honest and helpful.

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  • Mars
  • 01-30-22

What a fantastic book

Really loved this and just what I needed. Wow, thank you so much. Such a blessing x

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  • Mary
  • 12-01-21

Wow

I don't know what I expected but this book definitely exceeded those expectations. Lessons and tips for every woman to truly build a meaningful relationship, forgive themselves and simply know that they are not alone in this dating game. I loved the insights and this will be a book that I come back to over and over again. Thank you to Judge Faith for writing these words because it has truly helped me.

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  • 11-24-21

A heart felt, easy read.

A good read for women and men, a simple guide of how to be and find the right person for you. Things we've read, heard or simply know but need a reminder from time to time. This is our reminder.
Faith Jenkins comes across like your favourite cousin who happened to gather so much gens of information to share with you, who will judge you slightly but above all love you and give you space to live the life you want on your own terms!
A really enjoyed it and finished the audiobook in 2 days
Love seeing a sister winning!

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  • Mibenge Nsenduluka
  • 09-26-22

A must read for high value women

I was not familiar with Faith or her work prior to buying the book but I was drawn to the book title. What an inspiration and a blessing she is. Her wisdom, vulnerability and candour are admirable. I’m a career woman who refuses to settle and this book gave me the tools and confidence I need to stay true to myself and strive for greatness. Thank you Queen!

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  • 05-03-22

A love journey with pointers.

Loved it, though, slightly struggled to finish, as majority was what's already out here in regards to the struggles we face in our love stories.
I have to applaud her for sharing what she went through in such an objective manner. Happy she's in a good space & wish her the very best.
A feel good book.

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  • angela
  • 03-07-22

Absolutely loved it

I loved every bit of this book from beginning to end .. the narrator who is the author is honest , informative , punchy and 100 percent correct ! Manifestation and high values is everything .. know your worth and keep it high is not easy .. this books make you confident it’s everything . And don’t settle for anything but amazing ! Loved it ! I recommend it highly !