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Slaying Your Fear: A Guide for People Who Grapple with Insecurity
- Narrated by: J. D. Ledford
- Length: 2 hrs and 45 mins
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Publisher's Summary
“My friends just pretend to like me.”
“I toss and turn all night worrying about what I’m gonna say. I even worry about worrying.”
“I always feel so lonely, even when I’m around people. Especially when I’m around people.”
“There’s nothing about me that deserves love.”
Insecurity is a deadly threat. It eats away at you and turns every social engagement into a chance to make a mistake and lose everything. Insecurity runs you down until you’re too exhausted to leave your house, and the joy is sucked from your life.
Psychotherapist Adam Lane Smith lays out a comprehensive plan to help individuals combat the effects of insecurity, attacking this personal anxiety at the root. Armed with a host of new tools and perspectives, seize control of your life and finally slay the monster of destructive insecurity.
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- Emma Rinker
- 10-27-21
EXCELLENT
As a 40 year old woman this book is one the most influential and informative messages I have ever read. It is straight forward. To the point and EXTREMELY necessary for me to understand as I am choosing to move forward in my life and grow. I don’t want to hand my debilitating insecurities down through my family tree. I want my legacy to be the one who broke the curse of insecurity once and for all. That my children will know they have purpose and can stand firm in their values. To be strong, loving, and courageous in thier lives as adult men!
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- Some Guy
- 07-20-22
Thoughtful advice for insecure personalities
Most of the advice here is timely and applicable. Chapter 7 felt preachy, with a good message however, it's just a striking departure from the rest of the book.
JD Ledford narrates magnificently. Incredible performance! And whoever edited the audio really knows what they're about!
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- K Mac
- 07-13-22
Same as his other book
Saw him on a podcast and liked what he was saying so got both his books. They're largely the exact same text; would not recommend both. One will get you any useful info that's to be had. Overall did not find it helpful for practicing any meaningful changes in behavior. May try the book by a different author he recommends at the end.
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- Anonymous User
- 12-23-21
Clear and straight forward methods to improve
For anyone dealing with insecurity and constant doubts in their mind, this is a fantastic way to get some answers and methods towards getting those insecurities and doubts to change into positive actions and thoughts
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- Mark
- 11-05-21
WOW Who would've known its this simple?
The simple concept of Adam's teaching makes so much sense. Wish i had this info years ago. Thank you Adam Lane Smith
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- Anonymous User
- 07-13-21
Loved it!
This is the book everybody should read, if you want to improve your life and relationships, do yourself a favor and read it, for people like me with insecurities and attachment issues is extremely helpful to know that there are ways to get better and you can start to put in practice immediately.
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- Hannah
- 07-05-21
Great Start for working on Attachment Issues
I first heard of Adam Smith on the Mikhaila Peterson Podcast and was very impressed with his insight. I wanted to learn more so I bought this book and his other one and was not disappointed. This book is very insightful and helpful for anyone struggling with insecurity and attachment issues. Highly recommended for anyone who is struggling in relationships, be in family, friend or martial. My husband and I began implementing a lot of his suggestions and almost immediately found some peace in areas we were struggling.
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- Peter Eberle
- 07-01-21
Good read!
Really great book. No bs. No fluff. I really wish more authors would condense the important things into fewer chapters like Adam does.
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- Catherine
- 06-06-21
Game Changer
This book is a salve for all of us that struggle to understand ourselves and the world around us. The narrator was fine, but I would have much preferred to have h
read it read by the author.
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- Sciencetweacher
- 07-31-22
Offensive narrator.
What kind of narrator puts on a whiny childish voice when voicing a woman saying her husband is abusive? I can't get past the awful narration to finish this.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-12-21
Harsh but Fair
Good narration, it's expressive and funny in parts. The levity is a welcome break from the serious nature of the book.
Admittedly listening and applying the concepts and reflecting was difficult but worthwhile.
Challenging and insightful.
Useful for anyone wanting to help themselves and who has an interest in personal growth.
Not for the faint hearted.
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- Anonymous User
- 08-01-21
eye opening...
I can't believe there are so little reviews on such an insightful book. This book will help improve my life...thank you
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- JK
- 06-17-19
It Reached Me.
I suffered my own loss of confidence and doubt, shortly before this book came out. Listening to it made me go over what I'd been through and realise there was a light at the end of the tunnel, I just had to get there.
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- Anonymous User
- 06-29-22
Easy interactive listen
Enjoyed the small activities suggested along the way every now and then. Easy to stop and start after each chapter too