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Strangers to Ourselves
- Discovering the Adaptive Unconscious
- Narrated by: Joe Barrett
- Length: 8 hrs and 31 mins
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Publisher's Summary
In an eye-opening tour of the unconscious, as contemporary psychological science has redefined it, Timothy D. Wilson introduces us to a hidden mental world of judgments, feelings, and motives that introspection may never show us. This is not your psychoanalyst's unconscious. The adaptive unconscious that empirical psychology has revealed, and that Wilson describes, is much more than a repository of primative drives and conflict-ridden memories. It is a set of pervasive, sophisticated mental processes that size up our worlds, set goals, and initiate action, all while we are consciously thinking about something else. If we don't know ourselves -- our potentials, feelings, or motives -- it is most often, Wilson tells us, because we have developed a plausible story about ourselves that is out of touch with our adaptive unconscious. Citing evidence that too much introspection can actually do damage, Wilson makes the case for better ways of discovering our unconscious selves. If you want to know who you are or what you feel or what you're like, Wilson advises, pay attention to what you actually do and what other people think about you. Showing us an unconscious more powerful that Freud's, and even more pervasive in our daily life, Strangers to Ourselves marks a revolution in how we know ourselves. The book is published by Harvard University Press.
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- Lynn
- 10-27-12
Interesting, engaging, entertaining, informative
Don’t pick up Timothy Wilson’s Strangers to Ourselves: Discovering the Adaptive Unconscious thinking it might be a self-help book. It is really a serious consideration of the unconscious mind readily available to the general reader. Similarly, this is a departure from the psychoanalytical approach to the unconscious although Wilson does speak to that point of view. Rather, this book will open the reader’s eyes to current empirical understanding of the unconscious and seeks to answer the question, how might we access the knowledge contained there? The short answer is that we can’t (yet?) tap into the unconscious. However, Wilson provides a number ways that we might access that knowledge indirectly. The book is interesting, engaging, and informative. At least take a few minutes to thumb through a few pages or sign-up for a sample. You just might find it more entertaining and helpful than you envisioned. The reading of Joe Barrett is very good.
16 people found this helpful
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- Lea Zimmerman
- 03-23-12
know thyself!
If you aren't terrified to learn you may have little clue as to why you do much of what you do, you will likely enjoy and glean a lot from this serious, but understandable study of human nature and interactions.
9 people found this helpful
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- peter fuller
- 11-25-16
eye opening book
listened to book two times back to back because it is very helpful. life application of content is pure gold.
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- Utilisateur anonyme
- 05-22-21
pretty good
the narration is great, the subject is fascinating, but the overall book is good, but not the best. i do recommend it though.
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- spirit16
- 01-10-21
Understand Yourself
One of the most profound books on understanding yourself and creating a more meaningful and fulfilling self narrative. It elucidates the interplay between our conscious mind and the adaptive unconscious which must have a cohesive narrative that brings forth peace of mind. This book is packed with insightful anecdotes and impactful stories to bring it all together.
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- Shane Kaeo
- 12-23-19
Excellent listen and will have you thinking a lot
This book pairs well with "Thinkg fast and slow" by Daniel Kahneman if you want to go further down the rabbit hole. Enjoy
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-12-19
Possibly Preaching to the Choir
I enjoyed listening to this book. It reconfirmed a lot of my own ideals on the way we work. However it has inversely interested me in the critism of opposing theories. I admit I am biased towards works of Pinker and Kahneman and wish to challenge these agreements to further my own interpretations.
That aside, the work was well written, anecdotes were poignant/relevant and not gratuitous and the syntax was easy to follow and provided a cohesive message. I wish Wilson had more publications.
Have a great day everyone.
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- Robert Hodson
- 01-23-18
must read. blink was inspired by this.
read this because Gladwell apparently read this and wrote Blink. he missed the mark. this is the rest of the story.
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- Keah
- 02-19-21
this one is definitely a thinker!
narration was perfect and the topics are complex, only 8hrs but a lifetime of thoughts after your done!
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- Ryan
- 01-11-20
incredibly informative and eye opening
this is a very information dense book, but it's all very interesting and thought provoking.
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- Faisal
- 09-10-20
Good book 4.8
If u r looking for deeper understanding of yourself and and a few methods of how to change (not in much details) you should listen to this one.... It is not perfect but i have learned alot and I'll definitely listen to it a few more times
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- Apexcomp
- 02-26-21
excellent book
Well worth a listen, I would recommend it to everyone as a reference to life and thoughts
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- Michael
- 09-21-16
Why do I do what I do and why I should know.
Where does Strangers to Ourselves rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
nothing like Freud or other pyschology books I've read so far. It gives you the evidence, gives you the theory, opposing arguments, how it can apply to you and situations where it works and doesnt work.
What did you like best about this story?
learning about why i thought that why and how i can change that and in turn change what i do subconsciously.
What three words best describe Joe Barrett’s performance?
old school. scientific. matter of fact
If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?
who are you really
Any additional comments?
If you journal, think you're introvert or confused to about who you are, where you came fromand ask why you do things even though you know bettem. this is for you