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Publisher's Summary

Leila has made it most of the way through Armstead Academy without having a crush on anyone, which is a relief. As an Iranian American, she’s different enough; if word got out that Leila liked girls, life would be twice as hard. But when beautiful new girl Saskia shows up, Leila starts to take risks she never thought she would.

As she carefully confides in trusted friends about Saskia’s confusing signals, Leila begins to figure out that all her classmates are more complicated than they first appear to be, and some are keeping surprising secrets of their own.

©2014 Sara Farizan. Published by arrangement with Algonquin Young Readers, an imprint of Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill, a division of Workman Publishing, Inc. (P)2014 HighBridge, a division of Recorded Books

Critic Reviews

“Both personal and universal, this is a compelling story about high school, family and owning up to who you really are. Farizan is just the voice YA needs right now. Trust me, you’ll be glad you listened.”(Sarah Dessen, author of the New York Times bestseller Along for the Ride)

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This is an excellent work of coming out/ coming of age YA fiction. The protagonist is an Iranian American girl Leila, who has realized that she's gay and is trying to deal with it. Afraid of life and herself she's never had any experience with a girl; indeed her best friend Greg keeps asking her out. Leila manages to avoid crossing that Rubicon without ever leaving her closet.
Then Saskia enters the picture and the private academy that is Leila's high school and the title of the book now makes sense. Thus she's faced the difficulty of steering her way through the emotional mine field that is high school while living in two cultures while hiding who she really is. Ms Farizan is able to take us through it with hardly a stumble; much less a fall.
This audiobook is more than capable of standing alone. However if you have a child dealing with issues of sexual identity this can be one of the ways your child approaches you in their process of coming out. I worked in the mental health and substance abuse fields for close to a dozen years and the damage I saw from kids rejected by their parents was heartbreaking. The manner in which fictional parents can act as a guide if you let them. These are the same children they were before you found out; don't throw them away.
Whatever relationship path you ultimately take I love you H and I'm always proud to call you my child.

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A New Taste on the Coming Out Novel

This book wasn't perfect, but it's definitely worth picking up and recognizing as a successful LGBT+ YA novel. I was able to whip through it in less than a day, and would recommend this book to readers who want to laugh out loud with the humorous bits. "Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel" is about Leila, a girl who's struggling to cope with her own sexuality, especially after smoking hot Saskia comes to school. But what sets this story apart from others is that the plot is not suck on just LGBT+ struggles (i.e. loss of loved ones, healthy vs. unhealthy friendships, mental health, intersectionality, diverse cultures).

Other than that, I thought the narrator did a great job. Voice was clear, and pleasant to listen to, but I can see how sometimes it can be confusing to distinguish Leila's thoughts from what's she's saying out loud (a comment that another reviewer noted).

Overall, this book was well worth the time and money to dive into!

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It Made Me Cry, That's All I Needed

I spent hours looking for a lesbian romance novel, found one that totally satisfied that.

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The Story Doesn't Go Where You Think It'll Go

As much as I would love to give the book 5 stars since it was a fast and fun read it just wouldn't feel right. I didn't know what to make of Saskia. At first I liked her bluntness but then she always had to get her way.

Lisa needed more character to her she felt a bit plain but she was kind.
Leila would've been great with Taryn *sigh*

Nahal, Leila's sister actually had more of a character and story than who Leila ended up with and that's kind of sad but impressive since I really adored Nahal. She was such a great and supportive sister who changed for the better.
There was a bit of social commentary but not a bunch to annoy those that don't like it.

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Sweet

Nice and cute coming of age story. well performed. voice actor is great. an easy listen.

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Great Story

A story about friendship, love, and having to make hard decision. Fairly quick listen with enjoyable narration.
#Friendship #Highschool #LGBTQIA+ #tagsgiving #sweepstakes

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Great story

I found this story very interesting, well put together and true to some reality. It's worth reading.

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Endearing Coming of Age Story

I really enjoyed this story. It was charming, witty, and totally relatable for anyone who has ever been teen and crushed on anyone of any gender.

The only real critique I have is that with this narrator, it is sometimes hard to tell for certain what the main character is saying out loud and what she is thinking.This is a downfall of audiobooks, but some narrators offer more distinction between internal and external dialogue.

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A breath of fresh air

Would you listen to Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel again? Why?

Definitely! It was a sweet and touching book and it never shied away from hard topics.

What did you like best about this story?

It's just so refreshing to have a lesbian love story where no one dies, gets shipped off, or is having a secret affair. Yay for beating industry standards!

What about Negin Farsad’s performance did you like?

All of it, honestly. She brought such emotion and life to the book and the characters. Her unique voices for each character made them easily identifiable and traceable through the listening experience.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Oh yes. But I made myself space it out so it would last longer.

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Much wow, very cute.

Would you listen to Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel again? Why?

Yes! I'd love to experience the story again. And I think it would be a good pick me up book.

What did you like best about this story?

All the intersectionality (sexual orientation, race, religion), the romance between the main couple, Leila's family and the friendships.

Have you listened to any of Negin Farsad’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

No. This is the first one. I think she did a terrific job and I'd definitely listen to another one of her performances.

Any additional comments?

This was a super cute and important story, the kind of YA book the world needs more of.