• The Attachment Styles Mastery

  • Define Your Attachment Style, Decode Your Partner's Brain and Build a Lasting Relationship
  • By: Taha Zaid, Jeff Green
  • Narrated by: KC Wayman
  • Length: 3 hrs and 6 mins
  • 5.0 out of 5 stars (43 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Your past could be ruining your present relationships. Here’s how to fix it:

Do all your relationships seem to follow the same pattern, no matter who you’re with?

Do you encounter similar issues from relationship to relationship?

Do you think you’ve found the one but worry that you’re doomed to relive the same relationship problems with them?

No matter how much you want to have a problem-free relationship, it’s inevitable to run into some issues along the way.

But when your problems keep repeating themselves and are damaging your bond with your partner, you will need to look beyond your current issues and dive deep into the past.

In psychology, attachment theory explains adult relationships through the lens of parent-child relationships.

According to this theory, we develop attachment patterns with parents and caregivers in early childhood that influence how we relate to others as adults.

Your attachment styles can also determine the type of person you gravitate to in relationships, since you are looking to have your needs met in a certain way.

This can sometimes result in destructive relationships if partners are unable to have their needs met in the way they prefer.

If you want to have a better, healthier relationship than your previously disastrous ones, you will need to understand your partner’s attachment styles, as well as your own, and how these can interact in harmony.

In The Attachment Styles Mastery, you will discover:

  • How you could be unconsciously sabotaging your relationships and destroying your chance at lasting love
  • Three straightforward steps to figure out your attachment style and understand the deep-rooted motivations behind your actions
  • The attachment style that can leave you feeling frustrated and ignored, especially when things get tough in your relationship
  • Why a seemingly happy and generous partner may be privately harboring resentment towards you

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Taha Zaid (P)2021 Taha Zaid

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Essential for working on yourself and your partner

What great content! This book gives a crucial overview of relationship attachment styles. Whether you are struggling in dating life or a longer relationship, this is an important piece for you. Easy to understand, accurate, and on point without too much side content. Highly recommended to get into the topic in several hours. For more detailed tips on fixing any problems, I would suggest more specialized books though.

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Very Interesting

A friend told me about this book. It’s easy to listen to. I found it very interesting. I let you find out who you are to have a happy relationship.

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A must read for self & relationship awareness

This book is very well laid out, easy to read (or listen to!), and makes the topic of attachment accessible to anyone wishing to learn more! The writing is clear, effective, and well researched. If you've struggled with intimate or close relationships in the past or present, learning more about your attachment tendencies (and that of your partner) can help open up a whole new realm of understanding. Connecting your present-day attachment to past history or trauma can be cathartic and enlightening - this book is an excellent resource on the path to becoming secure and deepening your self-awareness. Highly recommend!

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What you never knew you didnt know

The author makes sense of what you never knew you never knew. Once you understand its easy to reflect on.

This is a good listen if you already know or if your just introducing yourself or somebody you know to the attachment theory for the first time.

It helps that the author describes the foundation of how each person develops different attachments and goes into much detail and patterns that you are going to instantly recognize in yourself and in others. How to interact with each other and recognize our own needs and others needs that differ from our own.

Its a huge milestone to know that you are understood and capable of improvement.

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In depth expertise

Complex information presented in an easy to read format. It succeeded in giving me what I was looking for. I really appreciated the way the authors offered solutions to couples who might not have otherwise understood why they act and feel the way they do. A lot of soul searching in this book.

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I found out how to master my relationship!

Never thought that there could be a correlation between how I was raised and how I handle my relationship. This book is well researched and the author really knows his subject. The explanation about each attachement styles and how to deal with them is brilliant! I feel like after listening to this book, I have the tools to better understand my partner and break the bad pattern I have been having in my relationship. Thank you!!!

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This is the book you didn't know you needed

I read this book because a friend recommended it to me, but I had no idea how much it would change my life. I didn't even realize how I have sabotaged my relationship with my husband. For the first time, I feel like I have the tools to have a happy and healthy relationship. If you are struggling with your relationship or can't find "the one," I would highly recommend this book. It's different than other relationship books.

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Interesting take on the subject.

This is a topic that I, personally, have not heard people talk enough of. This is a fast-paced era, but we are all human. We all need support of some kind whether you are wealthy or not. Money is not the issue here. Companionship is important in this life.

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New Era for my relationship

I practice some of the techniques and it work well. Now I am talking more to my wife. Even our relationship is quite good

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Ever have an “ah ha” moment in your live this book was my “ah-ha” moment

All of my life I have felt like my partners didn’t “get me” and I blamed them, I blamed me, I blamed life. But on the reality we were speaking totally different languages and we were shocked we didn’t understand each other! If you are looking to stop the negative patterns in your romantic relationships you will need to see the pattern first this book will help you do it!

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  • Amanda H
  • 08-08-22

Wow!

There are so many things about this book that intrigued me. I had rarely if ever considered the parent-child relationship as being a key indicator of future relationship patterns. However, as I was reading this book, I could clearly see how the dependency my mother always had on others to make her voice known is something I have struggled to overcome myself. This book is a great resource for anyone...truly.

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  • Nate
  • 04-03-22

Very Informative

I am glad I acquired this book as it will help me grow as an individual and a better partner in the future.

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  • James
  • 08-11-21

Eye-opening

I am amazed at how much I learnt about myself from listening to this audiobook. Once I learnt the connection between attachment styles and our relationships with our parents, a lot of the reasons as to why I am the way I am became clear. This understanding has helped me immeasurably - highly recommend this audiobook

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 07-14-21

Great advice throughout

I definitely resonated with a lot of what I heard throughout. A lot of relationship books are based on just theory in an "ideal" scenario but this has real-world value. I've listen to other books like in sync with the opposite sex and this is actually better in my opinion. Great book, and very helpful.

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  • Mel Madsen
  • 05-23-21

A winner!

I discovered this book and simply couldn't wait to tell my friend about it! She has been in one bad relationship to the next. This book is super interesting and insightful - with helpful information about what an attachment style is, what yours is, how to utilise it for your benefit and go into your next relationship with positivity and a better understanding of yourself and your potential partner. A must!!

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  • Ben
  • 05-07-21

MUST READ, if you are in a relationship!

I have really enjoyed this book and have learnt things that I never really thought about before, but turn out to play such a big part in relationships. The book is easy to understand unlike other psychology related books that use a lot of technical terminology. What I especially found useful was the practical steps given to figure out my attachment style and understand the deep-rooted motivations behind my actions.

I highly recommend the book and say it is a MUST read for those who are in any sort of relationship!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 05-02-21

Well written and very informative!!

I would definitely recommend this book to everyone and anyone. It dives into explaining all attachment styles. Not only will this be helpful to yourself to identify your attachment style, where it stems from and how to achieve better relationships but it also helps you understand your partners style and how to communicate and have a more secure, rewarding relationship. Read this and you will not regret it!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-30-21

A deeper understanding of Relationships

Wow, talk about self-reflection. I've learned SO much about myself as well as others resulting in more self-love and compassion for myself which allowed me to also love and have compassion for others. My favorite part of this book is that it explains the ROOT and the reason we have specific attachment styles which was huge for me because I used to struggle with relationships. I struggled due to a lack of understanding of myself and others. As I continue to grow my business and grow older, I've also have grown wiser in listening to this author's books to accept and understand that relationships are EVERYTHING. So if you want a more fulfilling life, I recommend this book to anyone and everyone.

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  • Angelina
  • 04-30-21

Just what I needed.

I have heard of attachment styles in the past, but never really looked further into them. I knew they had to do with our childhood experiences, but I had no idea how much this affects our adult relationships as well. This audiobook was very informative and helps you to understand your own personality and attachment style, as well as understanding others in order to navigate your relationships. This book is making me realize things about myself from both the past and present that I know will help with my relationship with my partner, and just relationships in general. Honestly a great listen for anyone whether you're in a relationship currently or not!

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  • PUJA RANA
  • 04-27-21

thought provoking

what a helpful book, every adult needs this, be prepared to be changed! thank you! intresting read