Thee Best Audiobook for Fully Understanding Women!

What did you learn from The Beta Male Revolution that you would use in your daily life?

If you have yet to listen to any of Alan Roger Currie’s first three audiobooks, make sure you put this one first on your list. Even if you have already listened to his three previous audiobooks, this new one is still worth a listen. This latest audiobook is like a companion piece to his three previous audiobooks.

‘Mode One,’ Alan’s first audiobook, explains to men why verbally communicating with women in a straight-to-the-point and direct way is far better than verbal communication with women that is indirect, vague, ambiguous, or blatantly dishonest and misleading. This audiobook also introduces Alan’s male listeners to the four categories women that all men will encounter, in terms of their verbal communication style: reciprocators, rejecters, wholesome pretenders, and manipulative timewasters. For this audiobook, Alan also has pre-printed journal notes that you can purchase separately.

‘The Possibility of Sex,’ Alan’s second audiobook, explains to men why verbally communicating with women in an indirect way or subjecting yourself to ‘funclubbing’ with women (Alan’s unique term for a man pretending to be interested in remaining just friends with a woman when he knows he wants more) sets a man up to be misled, manipulated, and toyed with by women on a consistent basis. This audiobook concentrates on the category of women that Alan refers to as ‘manipulative timewasters,’ which are women who pretend to be interested in having sex with a man, but really, these women just want to use men for their platonic friendship and occasional monetary favors.

‘Oooooh … Say It Again,’ Alan’s third audiobook, teaches men how to make their voice smoother sounding, and more persuasive and seductive, and also how to read explicit erotic novels written by heterosexual and bisexual women to learn how to develop a talent for talking dirty to women and tap into their already existing sexual fantasies that they keep hidden in their heads. Alan makes listeners believe that they can get women sexually aroused in their very first conversation with a woman if they become really good at talking dirty to women by whispering in the woman’s left ear. This audiobook concentrates on the category of women that Alan refers to as ‘wholesome pretenders,’ which are women who pretend to be monogamy minded prudes in public, but privately, they are really very kinky, sexually adventurous and experimental, and even promiscuous.

‘The Beta Male Revolution,’ this audiobook, gives male and female listeners a brief, but very intelligently explained history of dating and relationships between men and women in the USA, and it explains how two decades (the 1960s and 1970s) pretty much changed everything between men and women forever. Basically, Alan says that US society (and probably even other countries too) has not really recovered from what happened between men and women in those two decades, and that those two decades ultimately caused women to view men in four categories: men who are good for satisfying sex, and not much more than that (total alpha males), men who are good for both sex and long-term companionship (alpha males with beta traits), men who desperately want to help a woman raise children in a family unit and are willing to take care of a woman’s financial needs and obligations (beta males with alpha traits), and men who women either ignore completely or only contact to be flattered or to have those men provide them with emotional support and listen to them whine about their problems with alpha males (total beta males).

I won’t give away much more than that. You have to listen to it for yourself. Women, I would assume, will learn a few things about how men work too, but this is a goldmine of information for men in terms of helping them fully understand what makes women tick. I guarantee you that after listening to this audiobook, you will understand just about everything there is to understand about why women do the things they do and why they act differently toward different types of men!! This is a must-listen for all men!

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Read this! Me = alpha male with beta male traits.

I have been a follower of Alan's for at least 6 years. I knew I was not quite a Total Alpha Male. I don't feel comfortable with people at first. I know that part about myself.
But I still think this book should be read by everyone. Simple advice but palatable for everyone. It makes sense how he describes the general trend of interactions between men and women. It's changing. I see it myself. Alan just puts it more simply and succintly.
Even though I have followed Alan a long time, I noticed a few gold nuggets in this as well. Him narrating this just puts brings the points home harder.
Highly recommended.

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No More Obligatory Monogamy = The End of Cheating?

This is Alan Roger Currie’s most comprehensive audiobook yet. I would recommend that if the gals listen to just one audiobook of Alan’s, this should be the one they listen to. For the guys, I think this should be the first or second audiobook that they listen to. I happen to be one of Alan’s few female listeners who has listened to and reviewed each of his four audiobooks, and this one doesn’t disappoint. This audiobook will make listeners better understand why Alan wrote his other books, Mode One, The Possibility of Sex, and Oooooh … Say it again.

In this audiobook, Alan expresses that he believes marriage simply does not have the same appeal for men that it did prior to 1960. If not worldwide, at least in the United States. Alan believes there are just way too many dishonest and adulterous men in the world, and even many more dishonest, manipulative, and adulterous women in the world. Alan doesn’t so much blame men or women, but rather he places the blame squarely on the flawed concept of obligatory monogamy and marriage itself. Alan believes that natural, organic, completely voluntary monogamy works out better for couples than forced or obligatory monogamy.

Also, Alan bluntly dispels the myth that all gals are only looking to connect with polite gentlemen, and go out of their way to avoid interactions with the bad boys and womanizing cads. Alan refers to the polite gentlemen as ‘beta males’ and the womanizing cads as ‘alpha males.’ I can say as a woman that most women don’t want a bad boy as a husband or steady partner, but for a casual shagging here and there, many of us women love the aggressive, masculine, and extremely dominant and kinky nature of the bad boy types.

I feel that the gals who listen to this audiobook are going to be left with mixed feelings, particularly if they aspire to be married someday. Some gals will learn new things from this audiobook about the overall mentality of men and their myriad of egotistical insecurities, while other ladies will criticize some of Alan’s strong opinions about women’s manipulative and materialistic behavior and his seemingly strong disdain for marriage, monogamy, and platonic friendships between men and women. I think all of the guys who listen to this audiobook will gain a better understanding about how some women operate and play games with men. Personally, I think this is Alan’s best audiobook for both the guys and the gals to listen to and learn from.

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not as good as Alan's other audiobooks

In my opinion Mode One is the foundation, followed by Ooh Say it Again and The Possibility of Sex.

This particular book was not as packed with advice and eye opening moments as the other books, but I would still recommend you listen to this one.

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straight to the point truth!

I will suggest that this should be the very very first book that every man should read if they have never read an Alan Roger Currie self help book. this book has open my eyes and helped changed my mindset.

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Find out the real reason behind marriage.

A total must read for any man who is contemplating getting married. Extrmely informative. Awesome body of work!

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Good Information!

Pretty good book overall. Narrator was also good without any particular inflections with his voice.

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Straight Game!

The honesty and insight in this book is very refreshing. It's well thought out well organized and keeps you interested throughout, without compromising the message.

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another winner!

Allen has become the modern day historian for the man and woman relationship. keep up the truth and the good works.

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A good listen, but too many broad generalisations

This is my second review of an Alan Roger Currie audiobook. I first learned about Currie's distinction between Alpha males and Beta males from listening to his audiobook titled "Oooooh ... Say it Again." One thing I love about Currie’s audiobooks is his very engaging, and often times, hypnotic voice. Listeners will surely love listening to him enunciate his words and express his beliefs and opinions.

In both of Currie's audiobooks that I have listened to, Currie refers to men who are polite nice guys and classy gentlemen as 'Beta males,' and he refers to the egotistical and cocky jerk types (who are allegedly great at seducing women into their bed) as 'Alpha males.'

Those debatable and opinionated distinctions and labels aside, Currie does do a good job of asking his listeners rhetorical questions and offering somewhat valid opinions regarding both men and women's behaviour in today’s dating scene that provide you with food for thought well after you have finished listening to the audiobook.

This new audiobook by Currie makes the argument that women love to spend time with three (or really four) types of men for different benefits:

- ‘Total Alpha males’ for good, satisfying sex only
- ‘Total Beta males’ for emotional empathy and support, and platonic friendship only
- Men who are either 2/3 Alpha and 1/3 Beta (what Currie labels ‘Alpha males with Beta traits’) or 2/3 Beta and 1/3 Alpha (‘Beta males with Alpha traits’) who are the ideal type of men that women want to date long-term, or marry and raise children with.

The passage I had the hardest time digesting was when Currie suggested that all single heterosexual men are guilty of ‘FunClubbing,’ which means that men ‘pretend’ to be interested in being a woman’s platonic friend, but deep-down, they are really scheming and strategising to get into that woman’s pants. I don’t believe this for a minute! I have a great number of male platonic friends in my life that have never once made an attempt to have sex with me. I believe women have far more to offer men than just physical intimacy and sex.

I also do not believe that only Alpha males are good in bed, and that Beta males are always horrible in bed. I think polite nice guys could make great lovers for a woman, and that the cocky jerks could be totally disappointing a woman in bed because of their self-absorbed attitudes and lack of commitment to pleasing their female bed partners.

Overall, I think this new audiobook is a highly entertaining and enlightening listen for both men and women alike. Alan Roger Currie is a top notch self-help provocateur, to say the least. Alan and his seductive voice will have his listeners ‘marinating’ on a lot of what he had to say about the current state of dating and relationships between today’s single men and women.

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