• The Break Up Manual for Men

  • How to Recover from a Serious Break Up, Become Stronger and Get Back into Life
  • By: Andrew Ferebee
  • Narrated by: Andrew Ferebee
  • Length: 52 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (675 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Listen to this audiobook if you're truly serious about getting over her....

Kiss agonizing pain good-bye; say hello to a deep herculean strength and self-empowered confidence that attracts new women, and discover the real secrets to overcoming a breakup and using it as a launchpad to reinvent your life and pursue your dreams.

Guys, let's face it, a serious breakup can suck! There is no one that is immune to experiencing a broken relationship. It literally feels as though your heart has been torn out of your chest. You can't stop thinking about her, what you could, should, or would do if you had another chance - even if the breakup occurred last week or 10 years ago.

But the truth is...it's over, and she's moved on! So what can YOU do about it?

The Breakup Manual for Men was born out of real heartbreak and an urgent necessity to get over the loss and pain of a serious breakup. In this powerful audiobook, relationship coach for men Andrew Ferebee has distilled the essentials of his own success and life-changing work with men who have been blindsided by breakups into an easy-to-follow strategy that you can devour in as little as a day.

This is no ordinary relationship advice book.

You will leave behind all confusion, pain, and heartbreak as he leads you through how to truly overcome and recover so you can become stronger, attract new women, and have the confidence to start living again in the shortest time possible.

Andrew leaves no stone unturned. Everything has been tested and proven to work! The result - one easy-to-understand book for men that reveals what you absolutely need to know.

  • Keys to experiencing acceptance of the breakup in a matter of weeks instead of months
  • Proven method to avoid the pain of seeing her move on and speed up the recovery process

©2015 Knowledge For Men, LLC (P)2015 Knowledge For Men, LLC

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Meh, it's ok...

It's ok. Nothing I didn't know before or could figure out on my own. if you need something to start with it is good but you'll need something more to get over a really bad break up.

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lame.

expecting something a bit deeper. The book is short and ends promoting his other books(!).

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The definition of useless

The author fails to connect any kind of real practical knowledge to real life situations, and all of his methods are based on personal experience he doesn't diagnose the problem instead he tells you to man up and accept life, although that is true, the author failed to describe the human nature, if you really want to learn more about how to handle a breakup watch an episode from the school of life on YouTube I promise you, you will learn more than this book another good channel to watch is charisma on demand, good luck !

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Would you say that listening to this book was time well-spent? Why or why not?

For an hour, its brief and straight to the point.

Would you be willing to try another book from Andrew Ferebee? Why or why not?

Yes I would be willing to try another book

What three words best describe Andrew Ferebee’s voice?

Clear, engaging,

Was The Break Up Manual for Men worth the listening time?

Yes i think it will be a benefit if someone is in the situation

Any additional comments?

Instead of going about the internet to find answers this is better as it gives the general and straight forward ideas and insight on getting over a breakup. This book is a start but you have to continue and put in the work and remember it takes time.

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True, if People Were Robots

Contained a lot of "practical" information, but was not realistic on an emotional level. Talking about how "you were going to lose her anyway" because she is eventually going to die is not going to help someone in emotional pain from a breakup. A problem with most breakup books and online videos is that they heavily lean towards the perspective of someone looking back, who has already healed from a breakup. Someone who is in pain from a breakup needs both, practical and emotional help.

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Meaningful for those really struggling with the end of relationships without kids

I found a couple of useful pieces of info here, but most of it seemed needed by someone else. I think this is for two reasons:

1. I’m not in that much pain. I’m not struggling with desired to hurt myself, abuse drugs or alcohol, lay in bed all day, or chase my ex. I don’t curl up in the fetal position and cry. I’m not jealous.

2. I have kids from the relationship, and that changes almost everything. It limits some possibilities (e.g., travel, moving), but augments others (e.g., finding a purpose, feeling loved).

The best part was the daily affirmations. I’m going to do those, for sure. :)

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Good motivator to pick yourself up and live life

Most of it should be common knowledge but it helps hearing it from another person. Almost as if they are telling you what to do and how to do it. Often times after a breakup our head might be filled with fog, so this helps clear that fog and help you realize your own potential. Get up and live your life. It's not going to wait for you. Capture it while you can

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Straight to the truth

No sugar coating, and this guy is trying to save other guys from self destruction. Listen to it and listen to it again: it will save your life in many ways.

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Helped me help my son when he needed me most

Im not sure I can say more than what the title says already. The knot in my throat is still there. The ache for my son is too real. Thank you for this guide while our mind is not capable to think things through.

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The hairs on my back stood up after listening to this….

At first I was a little hesitant, geez another book about break ups huh? I imagined a bunch of hyper masculine male verbiage like “get over it” “she wasn’t good enough for you” “suck it up”

But I noticed it was only $3 and I took a deep breath in and said “well if I lose $3 bucks that won’t be the end of my world lol”

The second it hit my library i I hit play and within minutes I amazed…I literally felt like he read a page in my mental diary. I teared up because this gave me hope that I can bounce back and that my break up wasn’t a definition of my worth but instead a definition of the OLD version of me…

My girlfriend broke up with me because I was very clingy, needy, didn’t have friends and I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. She told me “I deserve someone who is actually complete and whole” I couldn’t blame her and in all honesty… I wanted more for myself too.

This book taught me to take that painful memory and use it as fuel for becoming everything I deep down knee I wanted to become and this book was a short concise yet POWERFUL guide on what to do step by step.

I don’t care who you are or how much you know because if you are struggling with a break up you should consider getting this book as will teach some new things or it will refresh your mind on the simple yet constantly forgotten fundamentals.

Andrew is A guy who went through the process and figured out how to beat low-self esteem, depression and ultimately a lack of purpose.

Thank you Andrew.

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  • 10-18-18

Small But Hard Hitting

100% Going to listen to every morning.

Short but powerful. Going to be tough.
6 and half years gone just like that. Happened less then 24 hours ago.
Already joined Gym and going from London to Newcastle for the weekend to get away. I have to do this for me and listening to this every morning will help.

Thanks, I hope I make it.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 05-09-17

I'm a few weeks fresh in a breakup...

And this audio book is exactly what you and I needed! I am going to listen to this every morning. It ALWAYS motivates me - especially the writing sections... making these things physical has some sort of power.

Thank you so much!

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  • C. Carra
  • 04-30-22

Helpful stuff but read way too quickly!

Good content and general common sense. But the narrator cruised through the book like the content didn't matter. I kept having to rewind to hear things properly.

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  • Mir-Aziz Seyidov
  • 08-11-21

It fixed my mind

I had been depressed and lost stimulus but the Manual fixed my mind and has grounded me. I recommend it to every men and even to married ones.

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  • jonnyo77
  • 03-01-21

Very helpful

I found this really helpful, well worth a listen to help you move forward

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  • Mitchell
  • 01-04-21

Short but to the point

Takes a few reads and actually performing the tasks to see the value of this book. Open your mind and accept the truth

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-24-20

Average designed for the not so confident guy

It was ok. Nothing new. Too much focus on moving on. Needed some more topics discussing.

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  • Ken
  • 10-14-19

spot on

this book covers all the areas of s breakup and walks you through each stage . and explains what you can expect

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  • James Strachan
  • 04-23-19

Needed this

This book is a must, for all the brothers out there experiencing the pain of a break up. Wish I had found it sooner but better late than never. Listening at least once a day is part of my daily ritual.
No nonsense straight practical advice. It's like listening to a sincere friend, older brother or coach providing real world wisdom and motivation.

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  • jasmine
  • 08-23-18

Good book when you and the GF leave you

Good daily listen to sort your head out. More for self Improvment and building a better you. More focused on the bro and the girl grind not someone who is married with kids and going through that break up. It a good quick top up for mental health through a break up. You should also have other books in the armoury that have more detail.

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  • Arthur Wilson
  • 10-29-16

More on post relationship would be good

Good tips on the immediate emotional turmoil of getting through a break-up, more time and focus on improving life post break up would be good. Sure there will be another lady, but there is more that can be said post breakup.

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  • Peter
  • 02-10-22

Definitely Recommend

Wish i had this recommended to me the moment we broke up. Clear steps to take and reasons why.

Grab a pen and paper and get ready to take notes.

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  • roger o scullin
  • 12-26-21

slow down

great information, but SLOW DOWN!!!! put some more emotion into the reading. theres no panic

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  • C. McDonald
  • 11-26-20

Essential listening after a break up

This book may be short, but it has the vital points you need to hear to get over a relationship. It’s the sort of book you can play over and over and it will make you feel better every time.

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  • Client Amazon
  • 11-07-19

What you need to hear

Plain and straightforward,every men in pain should hear this book ! I really enjoy after a parents forced break up

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-26-18

Powerful

Great confidence booster. Helped me really see things with clarity. Don't ever lose sense of who you are, things do get better