An overview of the first 14 ‘rules’ of discernment

Regular readers will know of my posts know that I am working on a training program to become a spiritual director. I intentionally choose a Catholic program because while the Evangelical and broader Protestant world has been rediscovering Spiritual Direction over the past 10 to 20 years, the Catholic stream of Christianity has never lost access to this tool of discipleship. Ignatius (late 15th and early 16th century) wrote the Spiritual Exercises as a guide for spiritual directors to give a 30-day retreat.

One part of that guide was two sets of ‘rules’ for discernment. These rules (guides) to help people in their discernment are split into ‘first’ and ‘second’ week rules, or the types of rules that were most helpful for people early in their retreat or people later in their retreat. You can roughly think of these as a type of spiritual maturity. However, Ignatius would not have assumed straight-line growth (in other words, once you are in the second week, you will not always be in the second week.)

Gallagher is only talking about the first set of 14 rules in this book. It took a while for me to start to make sense of the rules of discernment. I started by listening to the book, which gave me an overview. I then read the book a second time, mostly in print, but a little bit of listening. But just as important is that toward the end of my second reading. I downloaded a PDF of the rules and made it a part of my morning reading. And for a week, I read them every morning and highlighted or made notes about how they related to one another or rewrote some of them in my own language. I am far from an expert, and I do not think of them as the ‘be all, end all’ of discernment. But the process of getting them deeper into my brain by reading them regularly (I think I still need to probably read the about once a week for the next couple of months) and think about how they related to one another and try to use them in my own life does matter.

I am even more convinced that Spiritual Direction is an important component to revitalizing discipleship in the American Evangelical Church. But there are clearly other discipleship methods that can do similar things as what Spiritual Direction is trying to accomplish. But regardless of the method of discipleship, one component of discipleship is the teaching of discernment. I am not sure that Ignatius’ rules are the right way to start teaching this to an Evangelical world because the rules’ traditional language is a barrier. One of my classmates did a presentation introducing the rules as if she were presenting them to her AME church using her own language, but communicating the broad concepts of the first two rules, and that type of presentation I think would be very helpful.

We have to look no further than the broad impact of conspiracy theories and the distrust of expertise to understand how a lack of focus on discernment has become harmful. Ignatius is not talking about media literacy or understanding science, but about discerning whether a message is from God or a spirit/satan. By this, Ignatius did not mean only literal demonic attack, although he did include that. More broadly, for our purposes, when he talks about discernment of the spirits, he would include temptation, our psychological inclinations and sin, and the more rudimentary character issues that come up regularly in our daily interactions, as well as direct guidance from the Holy Spirit and temptations from Satan.

There are some books and teaching in the Evangelical world that talks about discernment. Hannah Anderson’s All That Is Good is one of the better ones I have read, and I would probably start there if you want a good introduction to Evangelical discernment. But two of the weaknesses of most Evangelical discernment teaching has is that it tends to rely on utilitarian decision-making too strongly (if it works, it is probably of God or at least a good idea) and that it is too focused on individual discernment. Thomas Green’s book Weeds Among the Wheat presents discernment as something that never should be undertaken alone. Green teaches spiritual directors how to teach discernment, but that assumption, that discernment should be undertaken in the context of a relationship, is an assumption that I think we need to cultivate intentionally. Too often, we do not talk to others about our decision-making because we do not want to hear others’ input. That reluctance is the first sign of a potential problem.

Recently I was talking to a friend that had made a major life decision. It was a big deal, both professionally and personally. He and his wife gathered together a group of about 10 people. Including their bosses, several that would be impacted by the decision, several outside of the impact of the decision, and hired someone who had convened groups like this before as a facilitator. They meet a couple of times, were very open about the process and issues to everyone in the group, and took the group’s comments and advice seriously. It wasn’t that the group made the decision, but there was an openness to the group that the decision needed to be made and a clear openness to seeking God’s will. At the end of the process, there was a clear direction that the group sensed. And there was significant buy-in by not just my friends but the whole group that participated in the process. Because my friends are in the senior leadership of a Christian ministry, they will try to encourage this type of collaborative discernment in many other situations as well. Because it went so well in this case, it does not mean that it will go equally as well in all cases. But in a culture that is so oriented toward individual decision making, I think this type of intentional cooperative work can help push back against some of the negative individualistic aspects of our culture and communicate our trust in both God and the church community around us.

As I hope I have communicated, I am not sure that Ignatius’ rules are the best path forward in teaching Evangelical discernment, but they are one path. Because they are one of the most well-known teachings around discernment in the Christian world, I think it is worth gaining some familiarity with them if you try to teach or learn about discernment.

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Extremely Friendly to the Lay Person

I am new to the spirituality of St. Ignatius. I found this book very easy to follow and to understand. Sometimes books on spirituality can be too lofty or complicated for someone like me who has only a casual background in theology. The first chapter was a bit dense, but the rest was exactly what I was hoping to get. These lessons and their presentation were immediately applicable and helpful to me both because of the simplicity of the presentation and the clear, illuminating examples given. I've already purchased The Examen book by the same author. I'll listen to it next.

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Spiritual Growth

I found the book extremely useful in my spiritual growth. More than once, it touched on experiences that I’d had but didn’t understand. Content in this book allowed me to put things into a better perspective and use them for greater spiritual growth.

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Not ideal for an audiobook

Due to the nature of this book, it’s better to have a hard copy of this book, especially for continual review.
I also found the narration to be almost painfully slow and listened to the book at 1.4x speed.
Great material, but I recommend an Ignatian retreat and only using this for review.

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Bad sound

The recording is very raspy and unpleasant to listen to. Please advise. I am listening with an IPhone 6. Thank you

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Excellent...just really excellent

A much-needed read for christians (and all people) everywhere. Marvelously done in content as well as narration. Useful, indeed, for the journey through life.

Good read, with practical help.

Good read. Rather listen, with practical help in discerning our state of mind in joy and in times of trial or desolation.

An Essential Read (Listen) for all Christians

An excellent introduction to St. Ignatius Loyala's spiritual rules for discernment. This is an excellent resource for all Christians, not just Catholics. Fr. Gallagher uses concrete, everyday examples to illustrate St. Ignatius' rules for people of all States of life, men and women, single or married, secular or religious. This is also a must read (listen) for anyone who is discerning whether they are called to be a spiritual director, as the examples used in the book are timeless.

Opening my eyes just a little

This book overflowed into into many different areas of my life and I was about to put into practice what I was learning as I was reading. This book has really changed the I way I think of things because I discern them now so they don’t snow ball.

Very helpful book

This book helps greatly in knowing myself and recognizing consolations and desolations.

Thanks so much to Fr. Gallagher -- I also read Discerning the Will of God, another awesome book. God bless!