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The Emotionally Absent Mother
- A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
- Narrated by: Emily Durante
- Length: 6 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Categories: Health & Wellness, Psychology & Mental Health
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Publisher's Summary
Was your mother too busy, too tired, or too checked out to provide you with the nurturing you needed as a child? Men and women who were "undermothered" as children often struggle with intimate relationships, in part because of their unmet need for maternal care.
The Emotionally Absent Mother will help you understand what was missing from your childhood, how this relates to your mother's own history, and how you can fill the "mother gap" by:
- Examining the past with compassion for yourself and your mother
- Finding the child inside of you and learning to mother yourself
- Opening to the archetype of the good mother
- Allowing friends and loved ones to provide support, guidance, and other elements of good mothering that you missed
Psychotherapist Jasmin Lee Cori traces perceived personal "defects" back to mothering deficits, relieving self-blame. And by teaching today's undermothered adults to cultivate the mothering they missed, she helps them secure happier futures - for themselves and their children.
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- Ame
- 05-02-16
This book will save you years of therapy
I have been in and out of therapy for 25 years and have never come across such a powerful self help resource as this book. It is clear, concise, and every word has impact. I cannot express my gratitude for how this book is helping me understand my mother, myself, my relationships, and my fellow human beings. Thank you Jasmin Lee Cori for helping the under mothered of this world.
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- Viktoria
- 02-16-17
one word: healing
If you could sum up The Emotionally Absent Mother in three words, what would they be?
helped me heal
What did you like best about this story?
I liked that this is not a blame game for mothers. It's about making us understand why mothers did what they did. That helped me so much to see my mother differently and it helped me to stop blaming her, she was a victim of life circumstances herself. This book is amazing. In just these hours it took me to listen to it I made more progress than in 40 years of my life.
Have you listened to any of Emily Durante’s other performances before? How does this one compare?
no
Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?
no, but it opened my heart
Any additional comments?
I think this book replaces lifetime of therapy
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- Anonymous User
- 07-09-16
Great!
If you were under mothered, it will give you ideas on how to improve your view of life and practice exercises to get a new life.
Didn't like the narrator though. Felt like she was going to "faint on me."
First couple of sentences were a bit "abrasive" to my ears, but then it got better.
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- Susan
- 06-19-16
Poignant & Helpful...
Not coming from an overt abusive mother I couldn't pin point why I feel so distant & hurt at times in my relationship w/ her. But The author here gives specific behaviors of how mothers & daughters 'connect' or don't and how the 'psychological patterns' of the mother effect the connectedness to the Dtr. The focus is on the Dtrs healing which Provides hope. The so thot discusses 10 characteristics of a 'good mother' and encourages reflection to whether you got that or not. Not leaving you hanging if you didn't get that good love from your mother, she goes on to encourage healing. She provides specific things, that as an adult, U can put into action- which I have found effective. Although not having a good mother, is no place anyone wants to find themselves…the book to me was informative and helpful.
9 people found this helpful
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- E Fernando
- 06-18-20
Transformative and healing
I listened to this book over the course of a couple of months while journaling what it brought up for me. This book was the basis for my transformative healing. The first half of the book validated everything I had experienced but had spent years thinking I was making up. And then the second half gently led me forward, teaching me how to heal,take care of myself and so much more . By the end if the book I was truly a different person. It was incredible. I am so grateful for this book. Listening to the audible version was also very relaxing. I could take it all in while lying with my eyes closed.
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- joann celeste
- 12-03-17
Great book!
A must read for anyone who has had a preoccupied mother. This book allows for true healing to take place.
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- Anonymous User
- 09-16-21
Eye Opening
I found this book to be very helpful and eye opening. It gave me much needed insight
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- Troma friddle
- 08-03-21
Great book 4 healing
I think this book has some depth in healing and separating today verses yesterday and how to move past the absent mother.
Was painful to go through but healing to release
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- tiffany
- 09-17-18
good book
really enjoyed this book, very insightful and healing I would recommend this book to friends
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- Elena Posea
- 08-14-18
Recommend
Easy to listen to, very hands on in my opinion, I recommend also trying the exercises (at home or other private place)
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- Claire
- 10-20-15
So helpful
This book really has help to relieve the sense of guilt I'd been feeling at not being able to get along with my now needy recently widowed mother.
I finally understand the mechanics of our relationship and I'm able to be more relaxed about it being just what it is and knowing it's not my fault I'm not a bad daughter!
8 people found this helpful
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- Resika
- 05-01-16
Very helpful
This is a book I wish many people could read to grasp their story.
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- M. Cottafavi
- 01-28-22
What a missed opportunity
I was looking forward to understand, in simple terms, how I can recognise and change some of my patterns probably due to an early separation with my mother. Instead I find yet another terrorist book on the irreparable effects I as a woman inflict on my child - btw Well done fathers somehow you're totally excused! If there are any useful nuggets they're deeply buried under the rubble... Don't waste your time.
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- casper
- 02-13-21
Helpful
Most useful and resonant book on this topic I’ve encountered. Lots of work to do & very thought provoking.
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- Anonymous User
- 06-09-20
Couldn’t even get half way through
I got this years ago and tried it again but I couldn’t even finish it! Got part way through chapter 4 and I have given up. I felt it was just listing things over and over and quite depressing. Maybe it’s more for someone studying psychology than someone looking to do personal development and work on relationships. It’s just not for me. This is the first audiobook I haven’t completed.
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- Hannah
- 07-10-17
Just brilliant
Deep and touching upon so many issues. I've got years' experience going to therapy and reading self-help book, but this one has been a revelation. It actually answered every single question I had and I've learned so much about myself. A real eye-opener and a great self-discovery journey supported by excellent advice. Really enjoyed reading this book!
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- Deb T
- 04-05-21
Eye-opening book , a must read...
We have many aspects of self, it just never occurred to me that one could be a mother!
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- Anonymous User
- 07-15-19
Amazing book!
Very helpful book for anyone who can't go to therapy, amazing self help book, love it!