• The Possibility of Sex

  • How Naïve and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly
  • By: Alan Roger Currie
  • Narrated by: Alan Roger Currie
  • Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (468 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

There are a number of good women in society who would make any man a loving wife, a devoted long-term girlfriend, or an easy-to-get-along-with casual sex partner.

Then there are other women in society who are only looking to take advantage of naive and sexually desperate men for their own egotistical and self-serving objectives.

In his second audiobook release, The Possibility of Sex: How Naive and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly, book author Alan Roger Currie once again highlights the fact that when a man expresses his romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to women in a very cautious, vague, ambiguous, or "beat-around-the-bush" manner, he potentially opens himself up to be misled and taken advantage of by women who are shrewd, savvy, highly experienced manipulators of men.

In Part One of the audiobook, Currie discusses women he refers to as Timewasters, which are women who are willing to initially, temporarily, or even indefinitely give targeted men the misleading impression that they have some degree of genuine interest in sharing that man's company in a romantic or purely sexual manner, but in reality, these women seek nothing other than to be flattered, entertained, or spoiled with financial (and non-financial) "favors" and materialistic gifts.

In Part Two of the audiobook, Currie describes in detail at least five types of "No Good Women" that he feels all men should totally avoid entering into any type of long-term romantic or sexual relationship with:

  • Gold Diggers
  • Man Thieves
  • Drama Queens
  • Misandrists
  • Liars and Cheaters

(Warning: Some chapters in this audiobook include explicit language)

©2012 Alan Roger Currie (P)2014 Alan Roger Currie
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Alan should have a PhD in The Psychology of Women!

What did you love best about The Possibility of Sex?

In Alan's first audiobook, he highlighted the weaknesses of men's behavior toward women, and he explained just how dishonest and manipulative men can be toward women. In his second audiobook, he turns the tables and describes in detail how dishonest, misleading and manipulative women can be toward men. Being a woman myself, I know firsthand that there are really good women looking for a good man, and there are really scandalous women out here looking to take advantage of naive, unsuspecting men.

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Possibility of Sex?

Alan points out that in the same way many men will 'pretend' to want nothing more than platonic friendship from a woman, when in reality they want to have sex with that woman, many women do just the opposite. They will pretend like have an interest in having sex with a man (either in the context of relationship or casually), but in reality, they just want to collect a high number of male platonic friends. I believe if a woman only wants to be 'just friends' with a man, she should let a man know that from the very beginning.

What does Alan Roger Currie bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Just like Alan's first audiobook, Mode One, my only minor criticism would be that he uses quite a bit of X-rated language and profanity (but I am used to it now!). My compliment for Alan is that he never minces words or holds back on telling the truth about both men's behavior and women's behavior as it relates to dating and relationships. He is a bold truth-teller. I do not think men or women under the age of 17 should be listening to Alan's audiobooks though.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Like Alan's first audiobook, most of the content is definitely geared toward educating men, but that said, it was also an enlightening and entertaining listen for me as a woman as well. If nothing else, it made me think more objectively about just how manipulative women can be with men. Most women I know have the tendency to only concentrate on the undesirable behavior of men, but the reality is, members of both sexes have strengths and weaknesses in their character and behavior.

Any additional comments?

Not only would I agree that the average man would be turned off by a woman who is a 'Timewaster,' a Gold Digger, a Man Thief, a Drama Queen, a Misandrist, or a Liar / Cheater, but I believe most good women also hate other women who fall into these categories as well!! (bad women make it more

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Don't let manipulative women waste your time!

Looking back to my late teens, I can pretty much say that my first romantically frustrating experience in life was exactly with a type of girl who was a Timewaster. I allowed both my time and money be wasted while going out with her only to find out later that she didn’t even want to kiss me or have sex with me when I tried escalating and, on top of that, with her words she was very vague and ambiguous, only offering me “the possibility of sex”. Back then I felt it was enough, and during my next call to her I just asked one question “When are we having sex?”. She kept playing head-games. I hung up on her and never pursued her company again in a romantic or sexual manner. It must have been my intuition that made me identify her as a “big time game player”.
Many years later I learned about Alan Roger Currie’s books. I decided to read all of them. And while reading to Alan’s original Kindle e-book “The possibility of sex”, I clearly remembered the time when I was hanging out with that girl: I was “hoping to get laid”, I was “courting” her because I thought (and I had been told many times) that girls need to be courted, and that every man is supposed to know how to court women in a right way. A question that comes up is this “What is left to us, men? What are we left with? With the hope that our courting will lead to a desirable result someday? With the possibility of sex?”
Questions like this really show that, instead of knowing the outdated (and often ineffective) ‘courting skills’, we should…we HAVE TO know how to weed out women who are there to waste our valuable time and our money. We should also be able to see through any manipulative head games women often play, whether it’s to test a guy or to pull his strings. And by weeding out such women (and let them deal with other men who are willing to accept this kind of behavior) we, actually, make room in our lives for sincere, genuine and loving female romantic and sexual companions…for a short encounter or for a happy long term relationship. And this is what Alan’s book is about! It is to give us, men, the ammunition to be these secure and strong men.
Even though I read the e-book Kindle version of “The possibility of sex”, I’ve enjoyed the audiobook ‘delivery’ more. Not only because I’m an auditory person, but also because I can feel the author’s passion and commitment to do his best to inspire us, men, to learn the difference between sincere and manipulative women. I once had an hour long video consultation with Alan and, more than half of the time we spent talking, he helped me identify Timewasters among women I was interested in. After the consultation I thought “I wish every man could have this kind of knowledge on his hands”. And here it is: 6+ hours of the author giving you a “personal consultation” and giving you the knowledge you will HARDLY ever get anywhere else (sincere women are usually not aware of all manipulative strategies, so they look surprised when you’re discussing it with them; manipulative women will usually give you the IMPRESSION that they don’t know what the heck you’re talking about..”Manipulation…huh?”).
Other than the 1st part of the book (the first part mostly focuses on the 4 types of Timewasters), I found particularly interesting the chapter on “Man thieves”: I’ve always thought women competing for the opportunity to win a guy over is a good thing, but, as it turns out, getting involved with a woman who “enjoys stealing other women’s men way too much” can be a really bad decision.

I would recommend this book to any man. And I’ve given advice to my friends on how to identify Timewasters and other No-Good women in their dating lives.

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Now I Understand Women! Thank you!!!

What made the experience of listening to The Possibility of Sex the most enjoyable?

The most enjoyable part of this book was the simple and clear way the author describes women's behavior. After listening to this audio book, I feel like I have 10 years of extra experience with women! I now know exactly how to deal with every situation so that I am never mislead nor am I having my time wasted by women who aren't genuinely interest in me. This book is literally a life saver in terms of my love life.

What other book might you compare The Possibility of Sex to and why?

Mode One By Alan Roger Currie because it lays the foundation for the book "The Possibility of Sex"

Which character – as performed by Alan Roger Currie – was your favorite?

Alan Roger Currie

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

Always being upfront and straightforward with women takes away all their power to manipulate me.

Any additional comments?

This is a book every man should read. It felt as though Alan was sitting in the same room as me; talking to me man to man. With the wisdom shared in this amazing audiobook, many men will avoid having their hearts broken - and this is great because there will be a lot less misogynistic men in the world. This book is truly a treasure.

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Crucial information for every man to know, potentially life saving as well

This book helped me point out all the mistakes I’ve made in the past and learn how to fix them. Again along with his other three books,
1. Mode one
2. Oooooh...day it again
3. Beta make revolution

This collection of life changing information is essential for all heterosexual men in the dating game today. I’ve had my time wasted way too much and been strung along too many times but I’m so grateful to have come across this eye opening and mentally freeing set of books at 23 years old rather than 43 or 53. This was the last of his four books I’ve read and this one was the icing on the cake. I plan to re-read all of them 5 to ten more times to get them drilled into my head. Thank you Mr. three names Mr. Alan Roger Currie for all of the good you have put out into the world with your work. Best of wishes to you and your loved ones.

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What the PUA does not teach

Pick up artist taught me to give woman the plausible deny ability and not the raw truth. For example to tell the woman lets go get "food" a "drink" or "after party " (plausible deny ability) instead of I want to have sex with you (raw truth).

Alan makes an outstanding argument that if you are unclear about what you want the woman can come over to your place and not have sex with because all you really did say was "food" or "drink" or "after party." She may have no intention to have sex she may just want a place to sleep at night.

Get rid of the women who are not really into you.

Outstanding leverage, reason, and purpose to exhibit mode one behavior.

Thanks to Alan I avoided a woman recently who only wanted favors.

I straight forwardly let her know I don't do favors for women I haven't had sex with because for all I know you just want favors. And she told me I was right. All she wanted was a ride to a party and for me to drive her home after she's drunk. Now normally a highly seasoned manipulator would have never said no or yes. But this woman was a rookie.



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Great book and must read for all heterosexual men.

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, I definitely recommend this book to all my male friends. It warns of the dangers of being sexually indirect with potential female love interests. Mr. Currie explains how women he calls timewasters, use sex as tool of coaxing indirect nice stupid men into being male platonic ego boosters and atm machines. "Mode one" sexually direct ballsy men cut off the Medusa's head of manipulation by being so direct and most times forcing even female manipulators into saying yes or no to sex or dating. Alan also breaks downs the myth of society that men are hornier than women. Complete goddamn bullshit. Women are conditioned by our christian corporate capitalist nightmare modern society to want something in return for their vaginas which are horny anyway for attractive men. Similar to how an illegal drug dealer would never give a addict free drugs regularly. Women withhold sex to make it a rare commodity. Alan gives us the red pill like Morpheus from the Cult film the Matrix and wakes us men the hell up. Great book.

What did you like best about this story?

Alan's real life examples of female teasers and the sexual duality of women were entertaining and educational. This book is words to the wise.

Have you listened to any of Alan Roger Currie’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

I read his first book and his magnum opus, "Mode one' but this is the first audiobook of his I have listened to. Alan has an excellent speaking voice.

What insight do you think you’ll apply from The Possibility of Sex?

Although I'm still extremely young and inexperienced, I will now always use a mode one approach with girls I am attracted to and avoid timewasters. Mode one is always great for "breaking down" pretenders (girls interested in a man sexually but pretending not to be to save face). I can't wait to listen to Alan's next book called "Say it again".

Any additional comments?

Mooooooooode OOOOONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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read this before reading ARC's first book mode one

after reading this u will no longer be a woman's door mat or a platonic friend unless you choose to. Alan Roger Currie gives straight to the point direct knowledge about time wasters.

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This is life-changing stuff!

I can't express how fortunate I feel to have discovered ARC's material! The content is spot-on, and the way Alan delivers it is incredible. I love the way he narrates and makes this stuff easy to understand. Have you ever went to church and felt like the preacher was talking about you specifically? That's how I feel listening to this. I'm like:" Does this dude know me?"
Thanks to Alan I am on a mission...mode one baby!

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The Possibility of sex

Would you consider the audio edition of The Possibility of Sex to be better than the print version?

I liked the audiobook I haven't read the print version but I am trying to get back to reading so i might get it just for the read

Who was your favorite character and why?

My favorite character is Alan Roger Currie because in his stories things get real but my second favorite character is the alpha maleTyrone

Which character – as performed by Alan Roger Currie – was your favorite?

Tyrone's character is who the Beta male aspires to be, he doesn't waste time or attention

If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

The science of Alan Roger Currie

Any additional comments?

I recommend this audiobook

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Loved It

Loved it. I felt like so much if my life was explained thru this book. My only complaint is that I didn't find it sooner!!!

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  • MJ EMERSON
  • 12-15-15

top book

Very good book from one of only 2 recognised direct approach guys there are. I've met Alan in London 5 years ago and we talked over chicken wings in his flat in Notting Hill.

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  • Loast
  • 06-20-17

A book to read on the train

What did you like most about The Possibility of Sex?

Unlike "OOOh", if you had this in paperbook, you could easily and assuredly carry it about without raising too many eyebrows. Already a good start

What other book might you compare The Possibility of Sex to, and why?

Might only compare it to Mode One, only , in reality after reading this it would be good to check out "Anatomy of Female Power" in addition to "The Manipulated Man".

Which character – as performed by Alan Roger Currie – was your favourite?

Him explaining the story of females in the church who were losing their minds when they found they were unable to make men lose their minds. It reminds me of a female I overheard talking about "Maxi dresses" and how they make men go crazy, cunningly smirking as she made this remark which showcases how much power she might have over fragile males. This book is self defence

If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

Not all power is privilege

Any additional comments?

I would definitely ask every "easily excitable" male to purchase this book and in doing so, reclaim your being. I would strongly even suggest it is listening to alongside Amos Wilsons talk on Male Female relationships, for this, like Wartenberg, is about Power.

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  • TJ
  • 05-10-17

Vitamins and Water

It genuinely feels refreshing to listen to something so raw and forthright. Mr Curries speaks the unterthered truth, and one can really extract a lot life nurients from this Audio book. I highly recommend this Audio Book to anyone. What a grest listen!

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  • DeeTee
  • 03-26-17

Just wow

I wish Alan Roger Currie was one of my university lecturers, his explanatory style is extremely straightforward.

I much appreciate his fixing of my fixing my "reality alarm clock". I have now woken the f*** up and lots of encounters in the past now make more sense to me.

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  • Rajesh
  • 12-11-16

Every men should listen to this audio book or read

Any additional comments?

Women have been manipulating men from the beginning of time. But the question that remains unanswered for many is why do women manipulate men? Why is manipulation such a handy tool for women to use when it comes to dealing with their male counterpart?

The goal of this book is to get every reader to look at manipulation holistically, and then make a decision as to how they feel about it. It is not a do it yourself book on manipulation nor is it a lambasting of women for using their manipulation skills. It is a journey of introspection. Whether you are male or female, manipulator or manipulated, I know that you have given this subject some thought. Your perceptions may change as you read it. Throughout the book we look at how manipulation is achieved and why it was needed by women in the past. We look at whether it has a place in modern society, and what men's role has been in its use.

It is partly a historical walk with women, partly looking into their psyche's to see where manipulation is embedded in them. As a woman, it will give you a good view into why women use manipulation; why it has been used down the centuries and where it is still used today. As a man, it will give you insight into this powerful tool that you feel is used against you. Perhaps, after reading this book, your perceptions will have changed and you will have a kinder view towards why women use manipulation.

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  • Mucalytic
  • 10-14-16

You must listen to this

I've known about Alan Roger Currie for some time and have owned the eBook version of his first work, 'Mode One' for years. However, listening to the audio version of that book and this one are essential to understanding his seduction philosophy. I also highly recommend the third book in this trilogy, which will complete your understanding of what Mode One really means, with practical examples. Having read these books, many guys seem to find themselves either in denial or having something similar to a Matrix-like awakening. If you find yourself in the former camp, I recommend testing ARC's philosophy out by acting as if what he says is true for a few weeks and seeing if your success with women improves. Best wishes wishes.

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  • User4739251
  • 08-12-16

Take Your Medicine - A Tough Pill to Swallow

This was the hardest book in the series for me to get through, namely because it was the painful truth that I needed, but did not want to hear. I persevered only because it's an important part of seduction education. Men are duped and seduced by a number of tricksters, but most often fellas are playing themselves. Go through this book like it's a dating health & safety course. Always wear your psychological protection and stear clear from the trap of the Possibility of Sex.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 11-23-21

2nd time Listening

I am currently listening through the Mode One series for a second time, having discovered Alan's audio books a year ago during the intial Lockdown periods of the Covid pandemic

I actually discovered Mode One in a very confusing time in my long term relationship with my girlfriend, following a period of relationship counselling where basically I was being advised to make a decision whether to end the relationship or not because of strong feelings and attraction that I admitted that I had towards a female platonic friend - although nothing sexually had happened between us

The 3 audio books where entertaining enough for me to complete listening through and I feel that I have acquired alot of understanding and knowledge from these books to help me be in more control of putting myself in this type of situation again

As things are currently I am still with my long term partner - things have improved including more open communication on my part as well as more enjoyable sex by practicing being less passive and by applying simple dirty talk which was something I never done naturally

Overall, the series of books has improved awareness of myself as well as male/ female interactions and relationships in general... as well as helping me to value my own time, energy and focus/attention much more than I had previously

I highly recommend this be your next read before exploring any other books on this subject

Many Thanks Alan

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  • Anonymous User
  • 06-14-20

Superb

Very thorough book... Just what I needed to as the author says "Wake the fuck up"... I have to say it was pretty hard at times because it unfolds some really harsh truths and realities but it was totally worth it, onto his next book to finalize my transformation to Mode 1 ,also ,it is a book that I would put in the category of 'Red pill awareness' to whom that term sounds familiar. The only bad thing about it is that now I can't watch my favorite sitcom of all time with the same eyes as before... That is 'Friends'... I know it is a sitcom but there is so much wimpiness and chumpfulness in that show and now that I realize it it is just hard for me to enjoy it as I did before, but again I am not sorry, better to know the bitter truth than to be satisfied with the beautiful lie because after all it is still a lie... Doesn't matter how beautiful. Recommend it to any man, any man... Even the biggest players among them, there are still jewels you can find in it. Top notch. Mode 1 baby... From now on. No more time, energy and money wasting.

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  • Al-Faris
  • 08-30-18

He keeps it real.

No nonsense, not for the faint hearted or easily offended. Offera a great insight into beta male behaviours and also toxic women.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-21-21

This is Mode one extended version in a nutshell

So writing this right now D22/M07/Y21 You need to read Mode one, This audible and Oooooh . . . Say It Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex in order The reason that is because: Mode one is basically being straight forward with your intentions with women who are reciprocators and rejecters, also with the other modes two, three and four, it also introduces time wasters and Pretenders. The Possibility of Sex: How Naïve and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly is the expanded version for Mode one it the entire book of time wasters and why they waste time and how to counter and discover the women who are time waster or manipulators in a Mode One way for dating a long-term and/or short-term Oooooh . . . Say It Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex is the book that can help you discover the Pretenders and seduce them in a Mode One way, Alan can help you to seduce and persuade into women giving in and making them reciprocates but that's what I am going to say I do not want to spoil anything so if you want to know buy the book That's about it I really enjoyed Alan Roger Currie's work and I hope Mode One will become a normal thing in the future

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09-28-18

Definitely an eye opener. Every man must read it.

Wish I had discovered this 20 years ago when I was a teenager. My life would have been very different.

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  • Yes very bizarre
  • 03-16-21

interesting

Great listen,
Alan Roger Currie is straight up and does not beat around the bush.
Gives you the truth so you can make a change
in your life. This is a must read/listen for every man.

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  • Paul
  • 01-13-17

interesting

An interesting look and a refreshingly new perspective of women and their role in the breakdown of relationships

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