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What is an orgasm, and how do I know if I’ve had one? My partner really wants to have sex, but how do I know he/she is not just using me? We have gone out with my partner for close to nine months now and we have only been to third base. Is this normal? Should I allow more? Those are some of the questions that you might want to ask but are too embarrassed to ask your parents, or they are too embarrassed to answer them.

Isabella Darling’s audiobook launches into conversations about a topic every teenager is excited by and hushed when they try to talk about - sex. It shatters taboos and faces misinformation from binary stereotypes and distorted images by the media, revealing how the young person is to understand sex and negotiate the decision whether to engage or not. 

Drawing on some of the most common questions teenagers ask, the author breaks apart sex and puts it together to climax in an orgasmic guide for every young person’s hands. The result is an unraveling of hidden truths, understanding consent, and bringing to bear the realities of the teenager’s sexuality in the world today.

©2020 Carpe Diem JL Ltd (P)2020 Carpe Diem JL Ltd

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A Must Know for Teens

TO DO OR NOT is a very informative and educational book about a topic that is difficult to address by both teenagers and parents. It captures everything one can possibly wonder about when discovering their own sexuality and provides very useful information and guidance for teenagers who have questions and don't know where to get them answered - I wish this book had been around much earlier!

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Wish I had this book as a teenager!

I purchased this title to prep for the upcoming uncomfortable conversation I need to have with my teenager. Ended up listening through all at one because I was taken back to when I was a teen and had to figure these things out for myself. Fast forward to modern times with all the misinformation available online its refreshing to encounter a book that can answer sex questions factually and without judgement.

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  • 03-22-21

A great insight to Sex Education for Teens

Am so glad I came across this book as was looking for a sex educational guide for my teenage niece who is going through a rollercoaster of emotions at the moment. Is informative, to the point and answers a lot of teen questions. I really wish I had this in my teen years. This is a read for parents and teens.