• What Narcissists NEVER Tell You

  • The Secrets for Living Happily Even with a Narcissist, Psychopath, or Other Toxic Person in Your Life (Narcissists and their Secrets, Book 2)
  • By: Elena Miro
  • Narrated by: Kelly McGibbon
  • Length: 4 hrs and 26 mins
  • 5.0 out of 5 stars (27 ratings)

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What Narcissists NEVER Tell You

By: Elena Miro
Narrated by: Kelly McGibbon
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Are you trying to make it work with the narcissist, psychopath, or other toxic person in your life? About 99 percent of the books written about narcissism will advise you to leave, and that’s what I did - but what if you can’t leave? If you have someone like that in your life, you might have received the advice to let them go. But what if you can’t? What if you still love them and want to find a way to make it work, despite how they try to manipulate you? If that’s your situation, then you need to know how to manage your toxic relationship so you can live a happy life.

Whatever the reason you have for staying in a narcissistic relationship, this book will help you understand how to manage your interactions with that toxic person for the best outcome. It will present strategies for how you can make a relationship with a narcissist or other toxic person work. 

I married a narcissist, and I made the decision to leave him behind, but that was the best choice for me. I know exactly how abusive a narcissist’s behavior can become. My experience with a toxic spouse is what prompted me to get a degree in psychology and write several books about my experience with narcissism and recovering from narcissistic abuse.

I soon realized, however, that many people can’t leave their toxic spouses or get away from their narcissistic boss. Maybe, your narcissist is one of your children, and you simply don’t want to break off all contact with them. In that case, you’ll need to know how to protect yourself from their gaslighting, narcissistic rage, and other forms of emotional abuse. You have to learn to live with them without developing narcissistic victim syndrome.

Specifically, you’ll learn about the following topics:

  • How to accept that they will never change while understanding that their behavior is not your fault
  • How to use humor to redirect their bad behavior and narcissistic rage
  • How to mirror them so they will feel recognized and understood
  • How to set strong boundaries to stop their manipulations
  • How to avoid being codependent, learn to live your life, and fulfill your dreams, in spite of their mental condition 

This book is designed to help people who don’t want to or cannot leave the narcissist in their life. It is possible to create a happy life even with a narcissist in it, and this book can show you what you need to know to protect yourself so you can make that happen.

The book will give you proven techniques to keep you from being manipulated by the narcissist you love. It will also help you foster better communication with this toxic person. 

You’ll learn how to take care of yourself so you won’t be a victim of narcissistic abuse and improve your communication with the toxic person you love, so you can have a positive and productive relationship with them.

You can make it work with a narcissist! Start listening to the book today to find out how to survive and thrive in your relationship with a narcissist!

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Elena Miro (P)2021 Elena Miro

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The book Gave me a new perspective

The book starts with the explaining codependency and how it connects to narcissism. The author did a great job of explaining narcissism and how to communicate with narcissists. Yes, you can’t change them! But you can adjust and still follow your dreams. What’s important: the book will tell you how to do not let narc spoil your life.
I also like the voice of the narrator. The narrator’s voice is as important as the words that are spoken. If I can’t tolerate listening to the voice, then it becomes difficult to receive the information by the author.

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For every person dealing with a Narcissist!

My spouse may be a narcissist, but he didn't precisely coordinate your normal narcissistic propensities, and after investigating a few other books, this one hit the check for me. It was worth tuning in other books to discover this one, that I can as it were investigate many pages at a time since it is so spot on. As well as the characteristics of a clandestine narcissist, i

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Teaches me a lot to run over from that!

As a mental well-being proficient, I have been trying to find a book to offer my clients who have a narcissist in their life. Numerous of the books I have investigated are basically somebody venting their claim story and advertising small profundity and research. It sheds light on one of the foremost complicated and misjudged sorts of narcissistic identity clutter - narcissism.

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Where Was This Book 2 Years Ago?!

I'm dragging myself out of a 2 year ride with one of the biggest narcissists on the planet and it is Hell. I cried listening to this book because it was so accurate. My heart is broken but at least I know I'm not crazy, disgusting, and alone which is how he makes me feel. I'll definitely be listening to this as my process continues.

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You will get some healing with this book.

This is one of several very useful books when coming to terms with having had a narcissistic relationship. I highly recommend this book as it did provide some useful information that I did not find elsewhere. I got other books of this authors, she writes very interesting things about toxic relationhips.

After having such a profound and traumatic experience, don't limit yourself to one book. Buy this one and a few others so that you can get golden nuggets from each of them.

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TAKES YOU TO THE NEXT LEVEL

I cant stop recommending this book. The author gave real and working knowledge that every person who lives with narcissists should know. I implemented some techniques with my husband, and I must say that our relationship improved drastically. Still, Im coming back to this book again and again (thanks for the pdf) and my working schedule. Get it and stop being a victim finally.

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Very Informative!!

I loved this book and couldn't stop listening!! I had to pause it at bedtime but as soon as I woke in the morning I listen to the rest!! Very good book for everyone who deals with narcissists!

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This book has great reviews for a reason!

With so many books on narcissism available I picked this one based on other’s reviews. They aren’t wrong! This book actually described my situation spot on several times and in doing so I gained a lot of insight. I understand what has happened in the last 25 years of my life and I wish I would have had this book one day in to my relationship that I have invested so much time in to. I think this will be a game changer for people discovering that they have a narcissist in their life. I plan on reading all of this authors work.

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Very Helpful Information!

A character like narcissism is almost impossible to deal with. This helped. This is a helpful and insightful book for those with a narcissist in the family (or other close quarters, like work), and wanting to learn how to enjoy life with them by better understanding them

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Must listen for everyone

That is a great audiobook that reveals secrets of understanding narcissists and narcissistic people and the ways of interacting with them. The author offers real cases and facts that will be helpful to live with narcissists. This book is more than a number of techniques of communication and secrets of dealing with NPD people. It's also about changing your MINDSET, and it's great! . To listen to this book you will need to open your mind and switch on your brain, cool down your emotions and choose to take responsibility for your life. If you prefer to stay in the "victim mode" this book is not for you. Even I'm not in a relationship with my narc anymore, this book gave me powerful knowledge and understanding of how I could replay our marriage.

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  • 06-16-21

If you cant leave

This book is not a magic pill, but if you have no choice listen to this book. I was in despair when I got it. After listening to it for the second time, my perspective is changing and now I have a HOPE for best. By far, some techniques that Miro gives in her book are working and now my relationships with my narcissistic husband is going better and I have more PEACE inside.

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  • Shantner
  • 06-04-21

Very interesting read

My headline says it all. This book changed the way I look at everything, especially my relationships with other people. It’s not only explaining the narcissism, it’s more about what they expect you to know. I will have to register to this again and make notes. Some points are very valuable and interesting.

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  • sandra
  • 07-05-22

Educating

It’s very good and educating. But would like to know about young families who have young children. Will the narcissist father/mother direct his narcissistic ways on to the children. But overall it’s very interesting book to listen. Thank you

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  • 09-11-21

compelling listening

im only on chapter 3 and I love it. im in a relationship with a narcassist who i have chosen to stay with. great advice and strategies for dealing with negative behaviours!

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  • Kevin
  • 05-24-21

When leaving isn't an option

This book is a fantastic resource to help those who are caught up in a toxic relationship with a Narcissist. it offers practical, helpful techniques, exercises and advice to cope with and deal with the Narcissist in your life. sometimes you can't or you don't want to walk away, this book helps you to do what you want to do. It is narrated well and is a wealth of information helping you to make the best of a bad situation.

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