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What Women Want in a Man
- How to Become the Alpha Male Women Respect, Desire, and Want to Submit To
- Narrated by: Greg Zarcone
- Length: 2 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Categories: Erotica, Sex Instruction
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Publisher's Summary
You can learn everything you can about how to make women want you and still fail to master the inner game of being a man that naturally attracts women. Some guys even study all kinds of seduction secrets on attracting women, yet they only end up in terrible relationships with low-quality women.
Most guys simply don't understand how women think. If you asked the average guy what women want, he may say things like confidence, money, or ridiculous good looks, but all of these things are just the tip of the iceberg.
Here's what women really want from men: security.
If you can communicate to a woman that you're a man who can offer her security in the world, she will give you her heart and more. And get this: You don't need to be ridiculously good looking or have a big bank account to make a woman feel secure with you.
In this audiobook you'll discover a much better (and easier) way to attract and keep a high-quality woman in your life.
Here's what you're going to learn:
- The reasons why phenomenal women are hardwired by nature to chase a man who possesses several qualities that are rare in most men. (Hint: These are the keys to attracting women and understanding how women think.)
- Ten ways in which you can immediately begin working on yourself to become an overpowering magnet for the woman of your dreams.
- How to make a woman happy by being the man in your relationship; you know - the one who "wears the pants".
- How to become an alpha male, be more assertive with women, and transform yourself into the strong man she respects and submits to.
- How to silence your "inner weakling" and become so secure with yourself as a man that she won't be able to entertain the thought of being with other men.
- And much, much more....
Get started now, and learn how to become an alpha male who can naturally attract a high-quality woman and keep her attracted.
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- Mikes
- 01-19-19
Thrown off by the title, but then blown away!!!
...to me, both "alpha male" and "submit" are words with somewhat negative connotations, but they definitely get a facelift with this book! This book is all about how to be your best self and have a great attitude, which will equal a great life, and yes, a great wife! This is phenomenal advice. Very succinct, and completely devoid of the crappy selfish attitudes that a couple other similar dating type books have had. I'm glad the author puts integrity to the forefront where it belongs. This gets a very high recommendation from me.
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- brian mcfearin
- 12-14-16
Be a great man and not a "nice guy."
Most of these strategies have been around a long time, such as self-confidence, leadership, principles, chivalry, resilience, and being a man with a plan. My biggest takeaway is the strong reminder NOT to be a pushover and employ the power of "No!" Be great and not just nice. Avoid a fight but embrace conflict.
I was always a bit of a Disneyland Dad after the divorce but- Bryan's principles outline key points that work across dating, mating, work, and life mission.
The narrator Zarcone makes it a manly-man experience without being cheesy. 12/13/16 BMac 59, Hudson OH.
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- lisa vazzano
- 05-24-19
Bryans Get's It...
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- Buggerall
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Loved it
Fantastic book. A real kick in the pants and a reminder we're not children anymore. Time to step up and make life happen
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- OCTAVIO FRANCISCO MEJIA
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A must read or hear book for men
The author teaches the basic tenets and attributes that a Man must develop in order to attract a quality woman, his dream woman.
Instead of wasting your time watching a lousy movie invest only two hours to learn how to transform yourself into a better version of yourself
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- Anonymous User
- 05-23-18
Amazing!
Wow, this book took concepts that I already thought I had applied to my life and opened up my eyes to the reality of how misinformed I’ve been.It made me realize how I have personally sabotaged countless relationships. I have immediately applied the things I’ve learned today to my life, I feel completely different about the prospects of my future. Thank you
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- Noel Almaguer
- 09-27-16
Insightful with psychosocial emotional etiologies!
Insightful. Gives simple to understand insights into the mind of a woman which includes thier emotional needs, thier innermost innate desires, thier turn ons, turn offs... the funda-mental mind set and actions of a wise real man of character and the things he does to make himself desireable to most women by appealing to thier innermost desires... a real masculine man with high character, clear about his objectives, purpose and priorities in life and true to himself... women are drawn to men who are confident in their abilities and are willing to stand for what they believe... and his manly character makes her feel more feminine, more desirable, more secure, causing these women to be naturally more drawn to the manly man that is true to himself!
10 people found this helpful
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- DonnyR
- 07-27-16
Serious advice for real men.
I credit Jen ( a previous reviewer) for inspiring me to listen to this audiobook. Her message spoke to my heart. I am a father and 3 and am married to a wonderful woman. My intentions were to discover areas where I need improvement. The book captured my attention from the beginning and did not let go until the end. I learned many areas where I have opportunities for improvement, additionally, I was able to reinforce a lot of things that I feel are masculine. Great audible.
14 people found this helpful
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- Andrew
- 03-23-16
If you are looking to be a better man this will help.
This book as well as No More Mr. Nice guy has really opened my eyes to the parts of my personality I was in denial about being less than ideal. Full speed ahead
9 people found this helpful
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- Jose
- 01-28-16
Very good!
First of all, this is not PUA B.S this is sound, relevant advice about becoming the best version of yourself.
It delivers, and the voice talent is very good.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-02-21
More than for woman alone, for yourself!
This book is written with the goal of attracting woman by becoming a attractive male. what I found was that is was much more than that! It is a guide to how you can live your life with integrity with yourself. It gives a robust story of what involves a life like this, and what you should/can work on to accomplish it. It is a book on itself, but it also refers to different sources to dive deeper. This book ignited my fuel, and it made me dive in deeper and my life is improving already. In the process the way you live your life will attract others, an probably better quality woman. I highly recommend this book. It also struck me how much info can be given in a 2 hour audiobook. Thanks Bruce!
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- Anonymous User
- 02-01-22
Amazing
if you are wandering and searching a good women must then it is must listen.
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- Petar Atanasov
- 01-07-22
Excellent
Inspirational book ,that gives you the right way....in the same time practical...
Highly Recommend it!!!
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-30-21
Amazing Read
Concise and to the point. Amazing information. A book that must be re-read regularly. Would really help anyone's relationship.
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- Ricardo
- 07-12-20
Standard Fare
Find your goal in life and the women will follow. I wish he expanded on this. Most of us are in jobs we hate without the time and resources to change.
After 20 years as an aircraft technician, I'm becoming a software developer. is it my lifes goal? who knows. I guess that makes me unattractive to women.
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- Matt H
- 04-03-20
Great additional advice
I listened to this after 'what women want when they test a man' and even though a lot was covered in the previous book, it still had some very good points and a helpful top up on what I have already read. This was like the title suggests, more about ones self and how to be a better man while the other book is how a woman works. Every man should listen/read these books.
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- Philmaine Rowe
- 10-22-19
This book is good
I like how the author takes things from a solid moral standpoint and links it to the biological and psychological aspects of humans to show that much of what men need to do will naturally attract high quality women.
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Excellent.
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