-
When Your Parent Becomes Your Child
- A Journey of Faith Through My Mother's Dementia
- Narrated by: Tim Lundeen
- Length: 7 hrs and 12 mins
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
Buy for $19.59
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
Listeners also enjoyed...
-
The 36-Hour Day, 6th Edition
- A Family Guide to Caring for People Who Have Alzheimer's Disease, Related Dementias and Memory Loss
- By: Nancy L. Mace, Peter V. Rabins
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 15 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Through five editions, The 36-Hour Day has been an essential resource for families who love and care for people with Alzheimer disease. Whether a person has Alzheimer disease or another form of dementia, he or she will face a host of problems. The 36-Hour Day will help family members and caregivers address these challenges and simultaneously cope with their own emotions and needs. Featuring useful takeaway messages and informed by recent research into the causes of and the search for therapies to prevent or cure dementia, this edition includes new information.
-
-
Listen to narrator before buying!
- By Megan on 05-22-19
By: Nancy L. Mace, and others
-
Dancing with Elephants
- Mindfulness Training for Those Living with Dementia, Chronic Illness or an Aging Brain
- By: Jarem Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Jarem Sawatsky
- Length: 4 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Diagnosed with a disease that can't be reversed? Learn how to keep living life to the fullest. Have you received a terminal or chronic diagnosis? Can you ever find joy, peace, or fulfillment in these challenging conditions? The answer is a resounding yes. When author Jarem Sawatsky was diagnosed with Huntington's Disease, he found there were no guides for those living with incurable illness. He quit his job as a professor and devoted his life to exploring the possibilities of living with chronic conditions. Now he's bringing his findings and insights to you.
-
-
From a person is on this journey of Huntington's disease
- By Laurie on 03-09-17
By: Jarem Sawatsky
-
The Dementia Handbook: How to Provide Dementia Care at Home
- By: Judy Cornish
- Narrated by: Erica Cain
- Length: 2 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Providing dementia care is profoundly stressful for families and caregivers. People with dementia or Alzheimer’s experience emotional distress, which leads to behavioral complications and the need for institutional care. However, if families and caregivers are able to identify the emotional needs caused by dementia and understand which skills are lost and which remain, they can lower the behavioral complications and their own stress.
-
-
Good program it should help many caregivers
- By Sheila Harris on 07-20-18
By: Judy Cornish
-
The Caregiver's Guide to Dementia
- Practical Advice for Caring for Yourself and Your Loved One
- By: Gail Weatherill RN CAEd
- Narrated by: Ann Osmond
- Length: 4 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When caring for someone with dementia, your own mental stability can be the single most critical factor in your loved one’s quality of life. The Caregiver's Guide to Dementia brings practical and comprehensive guidance to understanding the illness, caring for someone, and caring for yourself. From understanding common behavioral and mood changes to making financial decisions, this book contains bulleted lists of actions you can take to improve your health and your caregiving.
-
-
As a RN myself I HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend
- By Amazon Customer on 01-13-21
-
When Will the Heaven Begin?
- This is Ben Breedlove's Story
- By: Ally Breedlove, Ken Abraham
- Narrated by: Ellen Archer
- Length: 7 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
An inspirational and heartrending memoir about Ben Breedlove, whose videos about his near-death experiences and visions of heaven went viral in 2012, written by his sister Ally Breedlove. On Christmas Day 2011, Ben Breedlove's soul went to heaven. But it wasn't his first time there. Ben suffered from hypertrophic cardiomyopathy (HCM), a heart condition that posed a constant risk of sudden death. His condition, a thickening of the heart muscle, worsened over time, leaving him weak and fatigued.
-
-
Beautiful story
- By amber kiehnau on 02-11-22
By: Ally Breedlove, and others
-
Alzheimer’s Through the Stages: A Caregiver’s Guide
- What to Expect, What to Say,What to Do
- By: Mary Moller MSW CAS
- Narrated by: Heidi Rew
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Alzheimers books should help everyone involved through this incredibly difficult time. That’s why Alzheimer’s Through the Stages shows you what you can do for your loved one - and yourself - every step of the way. This book’s detailed descriptions of all seven stages of the disease are both helpful and comforting. With each section divided into three parts - what to expect, what to say, and what to do - this is one of the easiest to use Alzheimers books for caregivers.
-
-
Great overview of all the stages of care
- By T.G. Morse on 07-04-20
-
The 36-Hour Day, 6th Edition
- A Family Guide to Caring for People Who Have Alzheimer's Disease, Related Dementias and Memory Loss
- By: Nancy L. Mace, Peter V. Rabins
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 15 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Through five editions, The 36-Hour Day has been an essential resource for families who love and care for people with Alzheimer disease. Whether a person has Alzheimer disease or another form of dementia, he or she will face a host of problems. The 36-Hour Day will help family members and caregivers address these challenges and simultaneously cope with their own emotions and needs. Featuring useful takeaway messages and informed by recent research into the causes of and the search for therapies to prevent or cure dementia, this edition includes new information.
-
-
Listen to narrator before buying!
- By Megan on 05-22-19
By: Nancy L. Mace, and others
-
Dancing with Elephants
- Mindfulness Training for Those Living with Dementia, Chronic Illness or an Aging Brain
- By: Jarem Sawatsky
- Narrated by: Jarem Sawatsky
- Length: 4 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Diagnosed with a disease that can't be reversed? Learn how to keep living life to the fullest. Have you received a terminal or chronic diagnosis? Can you ever find joy, peace, or fulfillment in these challenging conditions? The answer is a resounding yes. When author Jarem Sawatsky was diagnosed with Huntington's Disease, he found there were no guides for those living with incurable illness. He quit his job as a professor and devoted his life to exploring the possibilities of living with chronic conditions. Now he's bringing his findings and insights to you.
-
-
From a person is on this journey of Huntington's disease
- By Laurie on 03-09-17
By: Jarem Sawatsky
-
The Dementia Handbook: How to Provide Dementia Care at Home
- By: Judy Cornish
- Narrated by: Erica Cain
- Length: 2 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Providing dementia care is profoundly stressful for families and caregivers. People with dementia or Alzheimer’s experience emotional distress, which leads to behavioral complications and the need for institutional care. However, if families and caregivers are able to identify the emotional needs caused by dementia and understand which skills are lost and which remain, they can lower the behavioral complications and their own stress.
-
-
Good program it should help many caregivers
- By Sheila Harris on 07-20-18
By: Judy Cornish
-
The Caregiver's Guide to Dementia
- Practical Advice for Caring for Yourself and Your Loved One
- By: Gail Weatherill RN CAEd
- Narrated by: Ann Osmond
- Length: 4 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When caring for someone with dementia, your own mental stability can be the single most critical factor in your loved one’s quality of life. The Caregiver's Guide to Dementia brings practical and comprehensive guidance to understanding the illness, caring for someone, and caring for yourself. From understanding common behavioral and mood changes to making financial decisions, this book contains bulleted lists of actions you can take to improve your health and your caregiving.
-
-
As a RN myself I HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend
- By Amazon Customer on 01-13-21
-
When Will the Heaven Begin?
- This is Ben Breedlove's Story
- By: Ally Breedlove, Ken Abraham
- Narrated by: Ellen Archer
- Length: 7 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
An inspirational and heartrending memoir about Ben Breedlove, whose videos about his near-death experiences and visions of heaven went viral in 2012, written by his sister Ally Breedlove. On Christmas Day 2011, Ben Breedlove's soul went to heaven. But it wasn't his first time there. Ben suffered from hypertrophic cardiomyopathy (HCM), a heart condition that posed a constant risk of sudden death. His condition, a thickening of the heart muscle, worsened over time, leaving him weak and fatigued.
-
-
Beautiful story
- By amber kiehnau on 02-11-22
By: Ally Breedlove, and others
-
Alzheimer’s Through the Stages: A Caregiver’s Guide
- What to Expect, What to Say,What to Do
- By: Mary Moller MSW CAS
- Narrated by: Heidi Rew
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Alzheimers books should help everyone involved through this incredibly difficult time. That’s why Alzheimer’s Through the Stages shows you what you can do for your loved one - and yourself - every step of the way. This book’s detailed descriptions of all seven stages of the disease are both helpful and comforting. With each section divided into three parts - what to expect, what to say, and what to do - this is one of the easiest to use Alzheimers books for caregivers.
-
-
Great overview of all the stages of care
- By T.G. Morse on 07-04-20
-
Finding Grace in the Face of Dementia
- 'Experiencing Dementia - Honoring God'
- By: John Dunlop MD
- Narrated by: Al Kessel
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A diagnosis of dementia in a loved one can be both frightening and frustrating. Only a biblical foundation fuels a Christian response that both honors the patient and glorifies God. Drawing on years of professional experience working with Alzheimer's patients, Dr. John Dunlop wants to transform the way we think about dementia.
-
-
Very helpful book.
- By Dennis on 04-20-19
By: John Dunlop MD
-
When Reasoning No Longer Works
- A Practical Guide for Caregivers Dealing with Dementia & Alzheimer's Care
- By: Angel Smits
- Narrated by: Derek Botten
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Nearly five million families deal with Alzheimer's disease and other forms of dementia on a daily basis. They do this with little training, and often, only their good intentions guide them. When Reasoning No Longer Works is the training manual these family caregivers have been searching for. Authored by a gerontologist with more than 20 years of experience, this audiobook gives the listener an easy-to-understand view of what dementia does to the brain, how it is diagnosed, and most importantly, how to deal with its effects.
-
-
Nice but not very helpful
- By Paul Hebert on 12-22-20
By: Angel Smits
-
Elder Rage, or Take My Father... Please!
- How to Survive Caring for Aging Parents
- By: Jacqueline Marcell
- Narrated by: Jacqueline Marcell
- Length: 12 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
After fighting through the medical system and depleting her parents' life savings and much of her own, Marcell solved her eldercare nightmare medically, behaviorally, legally, financially, and emotionally-and shows you how you can too. Elder Rage answers difficult questions such as how to get obstinate elders to: discuss long-term care options, accept cleaning and caregiving help, see different doctors, and and teaches you how to manage stressand grief.
-
-
Wonderful if you have a raging elderly parent w/de
- By A. American Woman on 09-07-17
-
Honoring the Elderly
- A Christian's Duty to Aging Parents
- By: Rev. Brian L. De Jong
- Narrated by: Brian L De Jong
- Length: 4 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Honoring the Elderly, author and Presbyterian minister Brian L. De Jong combines biblical insights with practical advice for eldercare. His work shows you both the importance and the realities of caring for your aging parents or other loved ones. With insightful questions at the end of each section, Honoring the Elderly is a valuable resource for couples, families, and classes discussing eldercare.
-
Walking My Momma Home
- Finding Love, Grace, and Acceptance Through the Labyrinth of Dementia
- By: Kathy Flora
- Narrated by: Kathy Flora, D. D. Scott
- Length: 7 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
You are not alone! Over 15.7 million people today are caring for a loved one with dementia. As caregivers, it’s easy for us to feel isolated. If you’re weary of the heartache and losses you both suffer, of the restless nights and chaotic days, then you know that our frustrations, helplessness, and fear can drive us to our knees. Dementia is cruel. But the caregiving journey that we are on also offers unexpected, uplifting gifts: profound personal insight; explosive spiritual growth; and discovery of our deepest self....
By: Kathy Flora
-
Understand Alzheimer's
- A First-Time Caregiver's Plan to Understand & Prepare for Alzheimer's & Dementia
- By: Calistoga Press
- Narrated by: Kevin Pierce
- Length: 4 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease can be frightening and overwhelming - and not just for the patient. Becoming the primary caregiver for a newly diagnosed loved one can be one of the most challenging - and one of the most rewarding - experiences possible. In Understand Alzheimer's: A First-Time Caregiver's Plan to Understand & Prepare for Alzheimer's & Dementia, you'll find a wealth of practical and useful information to help you and your loved one deal with a diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease.
-
-
Great for ANY Caregiver of Alzheimer's or Dementa
- By A. American Woman on 10-02-17
By: Calistoga Press
-
Where the Light Gets In
- Losing My Mother Only to Find Her Again
- By: Kimberly Williams-Paisley, Michael J. Fox - foreword
- Narrated by: Kimberly Williams-Paisley
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Many know Kimberly Williams-Paisley as the bride in the popular Steve Martin remakes of the Father of the Bride movies, the calculating Peggy Kenter on Nashville, or the wife of country megastar Brad Paisley. But in 2014, Williams-Paisley revealed a tragic secret: Her mother had been diagnosed with a rare form of dementia called primary progressive aphasia at the age of 61.
-
-
Wish I had this book sooner
- By Amazon Customer on 06-21-16
By: Kimberly Williams-Paisley, and others
-
Alzheimer’s and Dementia for Dummies
- By: Consumer Dummies
- Narrated by: Kim Niemi
- Length: 15 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If a loved one has recently been diagnosed with dementia or Alzheimer's disease, it's only natural to feel fraught with fear and uncertainty about what lies ahead. Fortunately, you don't have to do it alone. This friendly and authoritative guide is here to help you make smart, informed choices throughout the different scenarios you'll encounter as a person caring for someone diagnosed with dementia or Alzheimer's disease. From making sense of a diagnosis to the best ways to cope with symptoms, Alzheimer's and Dementia for Dummies is the trusted companion you can count on.
-
-
my go to book
- By jeff on 07-12-22
By: Consumer Dummies
-
The Color of Water
- A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother
- By: James McBride
- Narrated by: JD Jackson, Susan Denaker
- Length: 8 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Who is Ruth McBride Jordan? A self-declared "light-skinned" woman evasive about her ethnicity, yet steadfast in her love for her 12 Black children. James McBride, journalist, musician, and son, explores his mother's past, as well as his own upbringing and heritage, in a poignant and powerful debut, The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother.
-
-
Awesome
- By Michael on 05-30-17
By: James McBride
-
A Loving Approach to Dementia Care, 2nd Edition
- Making Meaningful Connections with the Person Who Has Alzheimer’s Disease or Other Dementia or Memory Loss (36-Hour Day Series)
- By: Laura Wayman
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 5 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Caring for someone with dementia means devotedly and patiently doing a hundred little things each day. Few care providers are trained to meet the challenges of dementia, however - and that is where A Loving Approach to Dementia Care can help. The book offers practical, compassionate advice on overcoming caregiving obstacles and maintaining meaningful relationships with loved ones who have dementia and memory loss.
-
-
Sharing is caring!
- By Katie Schramm on 07-13-22
By: Laura Wayman
-
A Child Called 'It'
- One Child's Courage to Survive
- By: David Pelzer
- Narrated by: Brian Keeler
- Length: 3 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Dave was in first grade when his unstable alcoholic mother began attacking him. Until he was in fifth grade, she starved, beat, and psychologically ravaged her son. Eventually denying even his identity, Dave's mother called him an "it" instead of using his name. Relentlessly, she drove him to the brink of death before authorities finally stepped in. With faith and hope, Dave grew determined to survive. He also knew that he needed to share his story.
-
-
Good one
- By Christy Medsker on 06-07-09
By: David Pelzer
-
The Rainbow Comes and Goes
- A Mother and Son on Life, Love, and Loss
- By: Anderson Cooper
- Narrated by: Anderson Cooper, Gloria Vanderbilt
- Length: 6 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Though Anderson Cooper has always considered himself close to his mother, his intensely busy career as a journalist for CNN and CBS affords him little time to spend with her. After she suffers a brief but serious illness at the age of ninety-one, they resolve to change their relationship by beginning a yearlong conversation unlike any they have ever had before. The result is a correspondence of surprising honesty and depth in which they discuss their lives, the things that matter to them, and what they still want to learn about each other.
-
-
Enjoyed the early parts
- By Dedrick on 07-06-16
By: Anderson Cooper
Publisher's Summary
At first, Ken Abraham wrote off his mother’s changes in behavior as quirks that just come with old age. There was memory loss, physical decline, hygiene issues, paranoia, and uncharacteristic attitudes. He soon realized that dementia had changed her life - and his family’s - forever. "How is it possible to lose a loved one while he or she is still living, still sitting right in front of you, talking with you, smiling at you - and yet the person you have known and loved for years is somehow gone?" According to the Alzheimer’s Association, an estimated 5.4 million Americans of all ages have Alzheimer’s disease. That’s one in eight older Americans. More than likely, that figure includes someone you know and love.
As he chronicles his own mother’s degenerative condition, New York Times best-selling writer Ken Abraham educates while offering inspiration to help listeners cope with and manage their family circumstances. With humor and spiritual reminders of God’s command to honor our parents, Abraham encourages listeners through often-difficult responsibilities. And though, in most cases, patients will not recover this side of heaven, he suggests many practical things that families can do to make the experience safer, kinder, and more endurable for everyone involved.
When Your Parent Becomes Your Child tells the story of one family’s journey through dementia while offering hope to family members and friends, that they might better understand the effects of the disease. Don’t let this catch you by surprise; be informed before you face the challenges and difficulties of a loved one with Alzheimer’s or dementia. This audiobook can help.
More from the same
What listeners say about When Your Parent Becomes Your Child
Average Customer RatingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Amazon Customer
- 10-22-16
Great book
I loved the book.. it is a story like, education like, it's full of knowledge out of real time experience. Helps me to understand how to help my boyfriend's father, who I like dearly.
2 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Georgina Laredo Sanchez
- 02-24-16
Sadly, sadly, so sadly that is a must read
My mother has senile dementia, just as the author's mother. I bought the book with the hope of finding something useful for dealing with her illness. However, I found the same sad history of his journey through this hell. Luckily, for him, his mother is kind of a very nice dementia patient. My mother is not that sweet, furthermore, she is an atheist, so believing in nothing makes the illness even hopeless. I have wondered myself what we have done to deserve to watch a loved one going through this. At the end, there is no cure, no hope. I found myself crying when doing my commuting and hearing this book. I can't say don't read it. Read it because it may help to know that you are not alone.
Read it and be prepared because this illness is a very expensive one, so not only takes away your happiness but all your assets. Read it, because it can last more than a decade.
However to be honest, my husband sometimes complains if I at the end will be like she is. And honestly I have answered to him, let me, take me to an asylum and forget about me. I have hated this time, I don't want anyone else to suffer the same hell I have suffer. I don't want my son besides me, watching me. I don't know is just me. I hope that in the near future life ending life decision could be legally made. I hope to have that chance.
5 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Cat288
- 11-29-15
Very Christian and not very useful so far
Would you recommend this book to a friend? Why or why not?
Unless you are extremely Christian I would not recommend this book. Even if you are I don't know if I would recommend this book. I am only half way through this book and have almost given up on it several times.
What could Ken Abraham have done to make this a more enjoyable book for you?
As my mother has Alzheimer's and my father passed away from a brain tumor that had similar effects on his behavior I had hoped to find something I could relate to in this book. The almost constant Christian references make this a nearly impossible task. Does the reader really need to know who wrote a new hymn? I am going to struggle through listening to this book in hopes that it has something useful to add to my exerience but I am not optimistic. I almost threw it out the window when you explained making your mother change her clothes because she was going to wear pants to church. If she was wearing her bra on the outside of her clothes then you might have had a point.
What about Tim Lundeen’s performance did you like?
Nice voice. Sometimes lacks emotion. Overall easy to listen to his reading.
Could you see When Your Parent Becomes Your Child being made into a movie or a TV series? Who should the stars be?
Absolutely never.
Any additional comments?
I will update this review if I manage on struggle through the rest of it.
6 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Tracy BROOKES
- 07-20-22
My Dad
I am currently going through this same situation with my own father and your words of encouragement and thoughtful insights have brought me much comfort. I am sorry for your loss. Your mother sounds like a wonderful woman!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- KSH
- 11-07-21
Inspiring memoir
This story really touched my heart as my mom also has dementia. She has been in a beautiful senior care memory unit but, as the author discovered, that kind of care destroys finances. We are faced with moving mom into a less expensive (and likely a less desirable) facility. Instead, I will be taking care of her in my home which is frightening to say the least. I pray that my faith in Jesus, as well as her's, will bring me the strength that I will need. I am quite certain that I will be listening to this book many more times as mom and I take this journey together .
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Dancin Dani
- 09-26-21
Memoir not informational
This book was not narrated well, and was one persons story instead of informational. Not sure why I need to read about someones parent and their decline when looking for recommendations and information on dealing with my own.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- TifTruBlu50
- 06-02-21
This book was just what I needed
I thoroughly enjoyed the story and so needed this right now. I’m currently in a similar situation as the author. Thank you for sharing your journey which will help readers manage there journey on this path.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Windu
- 01-14-21
My beloved dad
I purchased this book due to my dad’s dementia and how much the title related to what I feel.
The dementia is progressively stripping him away from me. My heart aches daily and it is very hard for me to see him like this however this book truly helped me during one of my saddest days. I know they will be many more sad days ahead but I also know I am not alone in the parent dementia world.
I was Blessed and thankful to have found this book.
I will be listening to it again.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Anita D Maldonado
- 02-06-20
Blessings to you and your Family
Thank you so much God Bless you I needed you and Miss Minnie in my life
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- SHELLEY
- 01-27-20
Found a little too late, but still in time
I just took my
Mother to a nursing Home one week ago, due to dementia. I needed this book so much, and honestly, detail by detail it is my mother’s story. Thank you so much for writing this book.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story

- R dixon
- 05-04-22
Still Mum
The narrator was overall very informative., but felt a bit repetitive at times. Great listen
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story

- Mike
- 04-13-22
Emotional, raw and real. A must listen.
Going though this with my dad, it rings loud and clear to what is happening.
Incredibly well written and narrated, you heart is with the family.
A must listen to anyone who is going through this.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story

- Anonymous User
- 07-13-18
Better Books Out There
I found this book so hard to get through, even when the family knew Mini couldn't peel and boil potatoes they still left their dog with her for 5 days!!!!! the book was easier to get through for the end stage. I like the story telling aspect of this book but I think Dr. Mary Newport's book is a better choice for story telling and getting across the challenges of Dementia