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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say
- Narrated by: Dr. Warren Farrell
- Length: 3 hrs and 9 mins
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Publisher's Summary
In Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say, Dr. Warren Farrell teaches us how to handle personal criticism without becoming defensive. He explains how being defensive evolved biologically when criticism was the sign of an enemy--and “putting up our defenses” was necessary for physical survival. However, Farrell says, “Defensiveness is the Achilles’ Heel of love.”
In love, our primal need is to feel understood. In Dr. Farrell’s words, "I have never heard someone say, 'I want a divorce, my partner understands me.” Ironically, the deeper our love, the more vulnerable we feel, the more defensive we become. Soon, couples feel they are walking on eggshells. Raising children means less time for communication, but more reason to stay together. The result: passion fades, and we are legally married but physiologically divorced. Or in a minimum-security-prison marriage.
The solution? In Women Can’t Hear What Men Don’t Say, Dr. Farrell teaches us how to emotionally associate being criticized with the potential for being loved. Since being defensive is biologically natural, Dr. Farrell creates an alternative method--similar to a “work-around” that we might create to avoid faulty hardwiring in our computer’s software.
Dr. Farrell’s methods are the culmination of thirty years of experience with thousands of men and women in workshops, groups and seminars. He shows how to use the strategies that create love at home to also produce success and respect in the workplace.
In this audio book, Dr. Farrell, selected by the Financial Times as one of the world’s top 100 Thought Leaders, personally summarized and reads the books content. A Book-of-the-Month Club section that has been praised by celebrities, therapists, and couples as brilliant. See warrenfarrell.com/136-2/.
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- Joachim Møller
- 01-21-15
Warren's a great narrator. Powerful & fact based.
Interesting from start to finish. Warren has a really pleasant voice. Short, which is a pity, but that does make it easier to convince your girlfriend/wife to listen to it as well. Especially outlining how not just the laws but especially the media is so anti-men it's really sickening. Take the red pill, wake up and realize we got the shitty end of the stick. VERY HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.
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- Simranjit Singh
- 12-10-20
Changed My Life. Loved Every Bit of This Book.
A must read. Eye opening. Thank you and much respect Dr. Warren Farrell. Definitely recommend this book.
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- Eloise Hoatlin
- 09-18-20
Archaic and sexist
If you love heteronormative archaic “women are from Venus...” bs you’ll love this. If this was a physical book I would have thrown it across the room and stomped on it to finish it it off.
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- Jeff Waldal
- 10-08-18
Very Helpful!
It has taken me a long time to recognize how to communicate with women, especially the women I married. I am ver hopeful this will help me with this important area.
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- timtam
- 10-13-16
Starts Great!
Would you say that listening to this book was time well-spent? Why or why not?
This book's first few chapters are really wonderful and get into some pretty clear gender differences and how men can suffer from having limited access to their own vulnerability and to friends and loved ones who create space for true authentic sharing. I love this because I do think men deserve to have our society rally behind them becoming more emotionally available, skilled and able to be better friends, lovers and communicators. I do think we can overlook this shortcoming or rigid role expectation with men. I removed some stars mostly because mid-way through the book it took a deviation from a social psychology bent to more of the authors memoirs and into some stronger gender politics that were clearly painful for the author. I didn't mind per se, but it took this book from a book I could refer to couples to a book I can't use other than for my own interest. Perhaps if I was teaching a class on Gender and Psychology it would be an interesting counterpart, but I'm not at the moment. So I just wish the author had a more distinct focus for this book... write either a memoir or a social psychology book.
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- Amazon Customer
- 01-11-21
This book was an eye opener
It was very interesting to hear all of these points of view explained like this. Although aware of these things I never stopped to see it from a man’s point of you and all the negatives said about women are absolutely true. Women belittle men in front of other women and we thinks it’s funny at the time. Most or maybe all of my female friends make themselves the victims in relationship issues or disputes failing to see the actual issue. This has certainly changed the way I view women’s capacity for discrimination and very often unaware evilness towards men that seems to be learned behaviour passed down through generations.Thank you for this book!
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- Max
- 09-11-20
Dr Farrell I salute you but- -
This is all good stuff but does not take into account genetic decision that have been decided for both sex’s. Men prefer young attractive women. Women are by nature banana gobblers and will make them self sterile competing with men. I don’t make the rules but I do have to live by them. This book is a great addition to the conversation and comes from a place honesty. However, it falls short.