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A fellow bookstagrammer had posted about this book and it completely intrigued me by the title alone! Reason being, in my twenties I read once that there isn't just one person for you out there, there's three people in fact. I believed it ever since and I found that I, in fact, experienced each of these loves. This book details each of these loves and shows you that you need to go through the first two loves to finally find your one true last love.

She breaks it into parts detailing what each love is and what it means and why. You have your soulmate, your karmic love, and lastly, your twin flame. She tells you things you may not want to hear but is necessary for you to grow past a love that does not suit you.

A glimpse into this book in my own words: We don't always learn the necessary lessons that our relationships are trying to teach us and so we may experience the same type of love multiple times, usually the karmic love. Our karmic love, she explains, is supposed to break us to make room for our last love. It's the one that teaches us, should we allow ourselves to see it, what true real love is all about. It's the one out of the three types that is the most tumultuous. And so our karmic love is not supposed to last, it's supposed to help make us accountable for our actions, and face our feelings.

In the end, I feel I am a bit biased because it's a belief I've always had and actually experienced. Mine came in a different order. I experienced my karmic love first and he tore me apart. I went back a couple times because I wasn't strong enough to stand up for myself. He was manipulative and headstrong and unfaithful. I finally learned and at some point moved on to my soulmate. We fit so well together, our families, friends. I know I loved him but in the end, I knew there was something holding me back. I knew, without really knowing, that he wasn't the one for me. It saddens you because you wonder if you'll ever really find the your last piece of your puzzle. Then one day, there he is. If the events in each of our lives hadn't happened the way they did, we may not have met... but we did and I can finally say, I've met my twin flame! He's made me feel things I didn't know I could feel, we love unconditionally, we are our true selves unapologetically.

In the end, that's all we are ever looking for in a true love. To be unapologetically ourselves and still be loved unconditionally! Thank you to Kate Rose for writing this and confirming everything I've always believed about finding that right one. I recommend this if you feel you haven't found your true love and don't think you will or find yourself at a crossroads in your relationship. I do think this will help.

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A little too mystical for me

I don’t fully agree with some of the ideas presented here. I think they might be better understood by attachment styles. The ideas here also seem a little more mystical than like any sort of psychological principles. But I don’t discredit the way the author has framed the narrative because I think it will ring true to many people.

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Too much talk about Reincarnation

Too much talk about Reincarnation - and for everyone that is marrying their 1st love just know according to this book it's destined to fail.

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Did Not Do Her Research

The author clearly did not do her research. She is getting her knowledge on corrupted material. Shame on the publisher.

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Eye Opening

I thought I had a good grasp on my feelings and emotions. I thought I new myself and how I loved, my past lives and my possibilities of a future love. This book had me questioning things of my past relationships and giving me understanding on why some didn’t last and why some took longer to dissolve. This was a great guide book to understanding my twin flame and helping me to plant my feet back on the ground because my emotions had me running wild with questions. Why is this one so different, why does this feel so exciting and scary, but yet feel like home and established love already? I enjoyed this book so much I am now listening to it again. Have an open mind about yourself and an open heart and listen with no reservations and you may just find new things about yourself you never knew.

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Holy guacamole, so true it hurts

I feel personally victimized hearing about these three types of loves. This is the clearest I've ever heard anyone explain these. And it's great being able to put a name to the experiences. I honestly could not have stumbled upon this book at a better time in my life. Thank you!

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Love this book!!!!

Holy! This is the book I’ve been looking for on love for my whole life. This book explains how my being feels. I recognized myself in the stories and made my relationships in life make so much sense. I love the explanation of the phases of a twin flame love. No one could understand our love connection because it was so not normal to them and I feel like I’m not alone in the journey after listening to this. My heart is at peace waiting for the next phase of union for our twin flame love

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excellent book

Absolutely spoke to my heart. Narrator was amazing. Must read for everyone interested in love and life.

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Definitely learnt something

However the twin flame love was a disappointing part of the book for me. The way she built it up (when emphasizing why the others aren't meant to last) made it sound like the ultimate love. However you are still expected to deal with and forgive the same BS at some point, especially as a wonan. No thanks. Way I see it the most important love story is with oneself.

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Couldn’t put it down

This book was life changing. I needed a fresh perspective on life and loving and this wonderful book gave it to me in spades. I didn’t want it to end. Be open to learning and enjoy!